So my boyfriend and I (both 19) decided to get married about two months ago. The engagement ring is going to come later (no money now, both in college) and the wedding is going to be after we graduate (in 2009, 2 years from now). So we really have not that much of a difference from our 1.5 years of dating so far, except for the assurance that we are each devoted to one another. So men seem to have no problem with this. He's thinking ok that's great, I've found my girl, now on with life until the actual wedding. But for me... I can't stop thinking about it, staring at peoples' wedding and engagement rings, looking at gowns online, thinking about who my bridesmaids will be, what they'll wear, who to invite to our small wedding, where to have it... etc. etc... basically things that should be saved for, well, 2 years from now. Two questions:
1. Is this healthy or normal? If not, please go to #2.
2. How do I stop being obsessed? I need to study right now and graduate, not worry about this!
2006-12-31
15:11:20
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reba
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Marriage & Divorce