I need help with what to do with girls. I am 16 and am by no means a loser but at the same time not super popular. Just recently this girl told me she liked me so i took her out on a date because we were friends and i kinda liked her. The date went pretty weel but we didn't end up kissing. I don't see her over the break because she goes on vacation but i call her and she doesnt return any calls and then she calls me and tells me it won't work out romantically. Everytime i try to get into a relationship with a girl it doesn't work out and in return i am starting to become less nice to girls because everyone says that girls dont care about that but instead jsut care about confidence. Wat can a guy do to start a relationship?
2006-12-31 15:16:55 · 18 answers · asked by crazytexx72 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be an a$$hole
and at the same time don't be a pushover
2006-12-31 15:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by j b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you have plenty of time...you'll find a steady girlfriend soon but your only 16 so be patient. Second, its harder for girls to find a guy they can see romantically. Girls are just naturally picky, the girl you took out probably (and don't get hurt by this becuase its not at all your fault) found a trait in you that she didn't find attractive. but that doesn't mean she doesn't want to be your friend and thats a lot of times the problem..women have a relatively easy time finding guys they would love to be friends with just not alot they could be a lover to. So to start a relationship?? just wait. If your looking for it of course it will never come...let it come to you, when you meet the girl your meant to have something with then you'll just know it. and when you take her out just show her a good time...take her out somewhere she wouldn't expect show her you have something to offer and at the end of the night don't rate your date on whether you got a kiss or not.
2006-12-31 15:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by teeny tiny KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to be a success with the girls?
Hold back. Be a mystery man. Women love a challenge. Is it possible that you are too easy to read? Too easily impressed? Whatever it is you keep doing....don't do.
It sounds like you are your worst enemy.
You are ready to admit that what you are doing doesn't work. Don't expect to kiss on the first date. Don't expect to call her right away...or multiple times. Do the opposite of what you are doing.
Take it to heart when someone says that confidence is the key. Women will invest time and effort in a relationship that has something to offer them. Be someone of interest. Have interesting things to talk about, have a sense of humor. Be sincerely concerned in your partner for herself....not so much about how soon she will get romantic.
Good Luck
C-F
2006-12-31 15:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At a young age, you tend to rate a date by how it ends up. Instead of concentrating on showing her a nice, fun time. You may be appearing to her as an individual who is pesty. Calling all the time and no answer--let her have her space---go find something else to do. And there is no guarantees that she even likes you. So what??? Try another girl--but never change to a low class man--stay the nice guy , respectful, and courteous...as you get older you will see that your type of man always wins the girl.
2006-12-31 15:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a girl I would say don't put it on her to hard or call to much . keep your distance and make her call you or ask you out . girls like a guy they can talk to but not to much cause then they see you as a brother type.So be yourself and don't show her how into her you are keep her mind guessing if you like her or what .hope I helped.when you see her just say what's up andkeep it short if you start to talk.don't talk to her to long like one of her girlfriends thats why she got them.Don't ask on a date say you want to hang out .So that why she can't say that she got you to take her out and pay for everything .Cause girls use guys that are too nice and willing to treat them good save that for the right one .but still have respect for all girls no matter what. hey her lost don't give her the time or day cause when she gets hurt by some football player she will come running to you.
2006-12-31 15:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont always have to kiss a girl to keep a relationship going sure if you can tell the girl wants to kiss then kiss her unless you feel uncomfortable because its stupid to drop how you feel and change for someone else. keep flirting like drop random compliments about her. then go for a hug, it doesnt have to be much just a friendly hug. then if you feel theres a connection pursue that go out on a date with her and see how it goes from there
2006-12-31 15:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Matt Koz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't keep calling the girl. That tells them that your needy and going to be a pest in a further relationship. Give the girl some space and let her come to you.
2006-12-31 15:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by celticstar95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lover boy just talk to the person long enough until she can love u also dont jump rite away to dates giv it some time
2006-12-31 15:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by all time syrian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get in a big hurry. You'll have lots of chances. Pretty corny I know, but be yourself. Do your own thing. Someone will come along that understands you, that's like you.
2006-12-31 15:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tanyaqt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want the relationship to work out with any girl u hav to kiss her good no matter how the date goes well thats wat id want im about the same age as you and id want a guy to grabe me and not be the least afraid this is kind of corny but do wat ur heart tells u
2006-12-31 15:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by may the force be with you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i had good advice, but i have the same problem. Im 35 and guys don't want to commit. Good luck!!
2006-12-31 15:19:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋