Family & Relationships - 31 December 2006

I'm 12 and i want a boyfriend. most kids at school do. I'm not ugly. i'm actually pretty hot but no one has asked me out. i think it's because boys are afraid to go out with a black girl. ( their are only 4 black kids in my grade including me). what should i don to get this boy as my boyfriend. i think he likes me

2006-12-31 18:25:14 · 7 answers · asked by Suburban chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy I dated long ago found me online 2 months ago.
He acted at first like he was still the sweet guy I knew him as.
I couldnt see him right away because he lived in hometown & I was moving home at year end.
Our IMs got very flirty. At a couple points he got extreme with S&M stuff but I chalked it up to him getting overexcited.
I moved home a week ago and he contacted me Xmas night.
He wanted me to come over to his house later Xmas night.
I joked that he wanted a Chsitmas Booty call and he got mad online and called me a B^tch. He then said he didnt want me because I had been mean.
2 days later I told him that I had no plans for New Year's Eve because I had to take care of my grandmother who recently had a heart attack and broke her back.
Instead of writing that he was sorry, he wrote back and asked if I d like to come by his place around 11pm -midnight that same night.
That made me irate, so I finally wrote and nicely explained that I have high standards. That I never compromise my dating ideals and that if he would like to ask me out on a normal proper date that would be great.
But I wont just come over to his place at night like that.

So now dead silence on his end. Nada response at all.
I was on AIM and Yahoo IM and so was he. He didnt IM me nor email me last night.
His silence speaks volumes.
Should I just ignore this creepy player or tell him off for good ?

2006-12-31 18:23:38 · 26 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Singles & Dating

Who's staying up all night for New Years? I know i am!

HAPPY NEW YEARS EV1!!!!!!!

2006-12-31 18:23:05 · 16 answers · asked by ChicagoCubs12_20 2 in Singles & Dating

since about 2 years ago when I went out with this guy named Sam I haven't been able to keep a boyfriend very long. My longest relationship since then is a week and a half. And that's a recent record. What can I do?

2006-12-31 18:21:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a cousin who is really annoying she laughs at everything anyone says. She talks alot and i don't kow what to do. HELP!!

2006-12-31 18:21:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm new to club dancing. When dancing real close, dirty with a guy, and your right up at him or turn your back to him, are you "wanting" to feel it or no? Not sure if I'm supposed to keep my space a little or if the girls are wanting to feel it.

2006-12-31 18:21:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i am really close too, he is so sweet to me I think what we have is really special. He is always hugging me and complimenting me. He remembers everything i have ever said. He treats me as if he cares about me, he will sometimes randomly kiss me on the shoulder or cheek. We are both attracted to each other, and i know that i have feelings for him but im not sure if its just a physical attraction for him. We have small fights alot and we have personalitys that clash. Also when he is in a bad mood he is different towards me. He does ask me questions about what i am like in a relationship. We both laugh about how dysfunctional we are in relationships.The one thing we dont talk about is how we feel about each other. I have know idea if he as any real feelings for me at all. We seem to really like each other but does it mean more that just a friendship to him?

2006-12-31 18:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a girl looks at u and u look back she looks somewhere else fast. and whats does it mean when a girl is wispering something to her firend and her firend start looking at u?

2006-12-31 18:20:27 · 9 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy in my class I like a lot, but we rarely talk. We do talk some, but I want him to like me. I'm afraid he likes my friend. Help?

2006-12-31 18:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by bookworm0-0 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 18:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by smity 1 in Friends

what are the signs that shows that a girl like someone....???

2006-12-31 18:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by Akki 1 in Singles & Dating

I think i'm pretty but i am 15 and i have never had a boyfriend. nor kissed a boy. i am attractive and skinny, but i never thought i was ready but with him i feel that i am in love. how to i get him to nottice me?

2006-12-31 18:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Allie♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you ever look back on your first kiss or boyfriend/girlfriend and wish you would have waited for something more special? Do you think waiting for the right person is better than dipping into whatever comes along, or the other way around? Hope you guys are loving 07!

2006-12-31 18:17:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

advice on introduction to another person's children for the first time

2006-12-31 18:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by wendy J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i've been in love with this kid for a year now and he doesnt no i like him. h obsessed with my best friend and my other friend likes him. i've done things to him that i regret, and i let him do things to me. idk if he likes me or not cause he gives me all these signs and stuff but idk. wut should i do? should i tell him i like him? should i just give up, cause he will never get over his obsession with my friend? should i sit down with him and talk to him about this? should i stop doing things to him and stop letting him do things to me? idk wut to do anymore i need help big time. please help im gunna go crazy if no one helps me..

2006-12-31 18:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by britnit99 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship with a married woman. I love her very much and she is leaving her husband this month. I also have a dear dear friend that I dated about 13 years ago. I love her very much. I would do anything for either of these woman. I need help who I should be in a commited relationship with. Any input other than I shouldn't be in a realtionship with a married woman would help. Thank you.

2006-12-31 18:16:49 · 7 answers · asked by dave w 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a women pregnant from a one night stand. I did not know the child was born until she was three months old. At about six months I started taking her on the weekends and paying child support. I never took a paternity test and we never went to court. When she was 6 her mother got married and moved her to Washington where her husband lived. I really did not know what my rights were. I stopped paying monthly child support, but have sent money for clothes and plain tickets for her to come visit. I would like to know what the guide lines are for paying child support for a child that has moved out of state, and if she was to move back what would happen.

2006-12-31 18:16:38 · 7 answers · asked by joe j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, so I've been seeing this girl I work with for a little while now..and tonight I celebrated New Years with her family and her friends. So her girl friends were pretty cool and everything. But her guy friends were basically hillbilly hicks...extremely ignorant...ONLY listen to country music, hate blacks and gays, love John Deere, etc. It was hard to get along with them, and since I had on a Hollister shirt, they kinda made fun of me. I pretty much just shrugged them off, and told the girl I'm seeing that they basically hate me, but she said it didn't matter...

So I'm kind of in a slump about what to do

2006-12-31 18:16:26 · 8 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you be mad at him or her? Would you wanna seek revenge?

2006-12-31 18:15:37 · 12 answers · asked by Answers 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my issue is that my husband left my two daughters and I at my parents house to go home(he had to work). We both agreed he would do this since we will be moving overseas soon. We would be staying at my moms house an extra week, then he would come get us. But when he got home he found out that he didn't have to work afterall. I am pretty upset that he choose to stay there instead of coming back here to be with me. It is only a seven hour drive and I figure he had nothing better to do. It also really upsets me because this makes the third year in a row we have been apart for New Years. My question is if anyone thinks this is as messed up as I do?? And why would he not want to spend the New Year with me??

2006-12-31 18:15:05 · 14 answers · asked by francesca e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 18:14:53 · 6 answers · asked by smash wit love 1 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this guy for over 7 months, and I know that I loved him, but even though he went out with another girl (after he told my best friend he was going to ask me out), I still can't stop liking him. I've even gone out with other guys, but I never liked any of them more than I liked this guy. I like this other guy now, and I still like the first guy, but I'm not totally sure if I only like the first guy because it would feel weird to not like him. I'm not sure if that makes sense, but it's almost like it's a habit of loving him, and I just don't want to lose that feeling. How can I stop this, without completely breaking off communications? I mean, we're really good friends, he just doesn't seem to want to go out with me. I don't know what I should do.

2006-12-31 18:13:26 · 3 answers · asked by Sneevley 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you love someone so much but you know/highly doubt you could ever be with them? Also, do you believe that the grass is most likely never greener on the other side.

2006-12-31 18:13:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i am really close too, he is so sweet to me I think what we have is really special. He is always hugging me and complimenting me. He remembers everything i have ever said. He treats me as if he cares about me, he will sometimes randomly kiss me on the shoulder or cheek. We are both attracted to each other, and i know that i have feelings for him but im not sure if its just a physical attraction for him. We have small fights alot and we have personalitys that clash. Also when he is in a bad mood he is different towards me. He does ask me questions about what i am like in a relationship. We both laugh about how dysfunctional we are in relationships.The one thing we dont talk about is how we feel about each other. I have know idea if he as any real feelings for me at all. We seem to really like each other but does it mean more that just a friendship to him?

2006-12-31 18:13:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In all my life I have never walked outside and tripped and fell on a women. I have never driven my car to the grocery store and ended up in bed with a girl. I have never been taking a shower and slipped and fell in a woman. So how do women accidently end up naked? Explain?

2006-12-31 18:12:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this guy i like at my high school and my friend just tells me to flirt with him, HOW?

2006-12-31 18:11:09 · 13 answers · asked by fantasyofmagic 1 in Friends

anything is kool!

2006-12-31 18:09:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 18:06:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 18:05:43 · 16 answers · asked by Myjah B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-31 18:05:19 · 9 answers · asked by JOY C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships