I've liked this guy for over 7 months, and I know that I loved him, but even though he went out with another girl (after he told my best friend he was going to ask me out), I still can't stop liking him. I've even gone out with other guys, but I never liked any of them more than I liked this guy. I like this other guy now, and I still like the first guy, but I'm not totally sure if I only like the first guy because it would feel weird to not like him. I'm not sure if that makes sense, but it's almost like it's a habit of loving him, and I just don't want to lose that feeling. How can I stop this, without completely breaking off communications? I mean, we're really good friends, he just doesn't seem to want to go out with me. I don't know what I should do.
2006-12-31 18:13:26 · 3 answers · asked by Sneevley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
I think you're still confused over your feelings so don't start dating anyone new until you think you're over him. Spend some time apart from the guy you can't stop thinking about... don't just cut him off but don't hang out if you don't have to. I don't know your situation, but maybe try talking to him. It could scare him off completely, but maybe you could at least understand what each other is thinking, right? Or you could try once and for all if he likes you... layer it on thick, get him alone... flirt like crazy, give him an opportunity to kiss you, etc. see what happens. If he was going to ask you out before maybe he does like you but is afraid to make a move. Who knows. Try to figure out his intentions 100% then if he rejects you take some time but move on.
2006-12-31 18:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r in Love, in a sea of love. Now if he dont wanna go out with you ten i m sory to say u r not just his type. I hope time will rub him off from ur mind, well make him realise how u feel for him, if he has a good heart he will respect u and talk with u might also go out with u even though he dont like u dat much. Tell him you like him but always smile while u talk with him. Give him a innocent cute look these things attracts a guy. Be stylish all da time
2007-01-01 02:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Myth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay of dating until u are sure what u want to do. good luck and have a happy new year.
2007-01-01 02:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋