I've been married for more than 20 years. I met my husband when I was 16 and married him at 18. Most of those years were good ones, but for the past 5 or 6 years I feel like I've been the glue to this marriage. Recently, he left me for another woman, was away for about 3 months, but wen ended back together, with a struggle. He's an alcoholic. I still love him, but not the same anymore. In the past, he's had a roving eye. He even lost a job because of this roving eye once. I forgave him in the past, including this time, but the difference this time is that I am not the same person anymore, and I met someone that now treats me like a queen. Unfortunately, this person turned out to be a family member of his. We have fallen in love and he wants a future with me as do I. I still love my husband and would want to work it out with him, but I don't trust him anymore. He's now behaving and treating me somewhat decent, for now. Any suggestions? Anyone with a similar experience?
2006-06-23
05:49:19
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BluePassion
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Marriage & Divorce