Well we like different things. We have nothing in comment but we are tired of dating different peolpe. We just wanted to settle down but now it seems like things are changing. I tried to see the positive side of things and he sees the negative side. I feel like I am no good for him. Know he don't want to spend time with me.
2006-06-23 05:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by TaQuia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off, I am sorry you are in that situation. I was too, and I did marry that guy. I do love my husband but we still don't get along any better. We were forced into marriage because I was pregnant and I had just left an abusive realtionship and wanted a steady thing. Don't settle with someone just to settle down. Sure the idea of a husband is nice, but what is the point if you can't get along? Your happiness is of the utmost importance. You need to sit down and have a talk with him about your feelings, he at least deserves that. He may feel the same way. Good Luck!
2006-06-23 06:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No two people like exactly the same things, but it sounds like the two of you have a much deeper issue than this. It sounds like both of you are just "settling" for eachother. Why would either of you want to be in a relationship just for the sake of formality? I know it's not easy meeting and going through the dating scene, but don't just settle and miss out on the man that is right for you.I don't see anything positive in this relationship. Please don't allow this whole thing to lower your self-esteem. You commented you feel you are no good for him, but I think it's just a matter of two people trying to make something work that just isn't meant to be. I don't think this is any reflection on who you are as a person, it just means you two need to maybe move on with your lives and find the person you are meant to be with. I pray everything works out for both of you.
2006-06-23 13:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, differences can be good. It keeps things exciting and fresh. Second, I didn't read anything at all about you two loving each other so I'm guessing that you don't love each other and if that's the case then you should break up so that each of you has a chance to find love. Never settle. Life is too short and too tough to settle.
2006-06-23 16:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.. because it's not going to change.. do not get married thinking that marriage will help... because it doesn't. I think I did the same thing.. and now I'm possibly getting a divorce.
2006-06-23 12:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by emeraldeyesmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for, move on girl. He's obviously not the one.
2006-06-23 12:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you guys are on the verg of divorce...oh wait YOUR NOT EVEN MARRIED! move on
2006-06-23 12:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by GiR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋