Okay. So. I've been chatting it up with a guy that I knew in college. We never really talked before or even showed any interest in one another.
The situation basically consisted of him requesting me on myspace. After I added him, he didn't really initiate anything, so I finally did. Well, time passes and we message each other back and forth...blah blah...He gives me his number first. I return the favor, but he calls me first. To make a long story short, we've only talked maybe twice. The first time was maybe 5 min., he wanted to confirm plans for dinner. I said cool. But, we didn't go out b/c it rained. I don't think we rescheduled, but then we have this amazing convo on the phone that lasted for like 2-3hrs and that was the last of the phone talk. Communication betwn us is usually text, which is cool, but at my age it's annoying and redundant.
The dilemma:
One night we were texing each other, at least one or two words back and forth. I texted him first, b/c I will admit, I'm not the most persitent person when it comes to relationships. I was thinking along the lines of SHOW THIS GUY YOU'RE INTERESTED. B/c I know me and I can send off some bad vibes without trying! but the thing that pissed me off was when he and I were texting each other back and forth, I felt as if he didn't really feel like being bothered. I felt that energy ...and then to top it off, he left a text convo WIDE OPEN, so I felt as if he brushed me off! I know some people have a hard time saying goodbye or ending a convo, BUT please say somethin! I mean, I felt really dumb and he didn't bother to text me back until the Dec 6th. The last text was on the 30th of Nov!
This is what WIDE OPEN looks like:
the guy: you should get out
me: no, i shouldn't
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Now, there was previous texting before these last two, but this right here was like...OKAY?!?
So, I'm pretty sure you can guess what I've been doing. Yes, I've been punishing him. The poor guy has texted me, called me and I have not responded and I don't know why. He's cool and I doubt if he's doing this diliberately. He doesn't really know me like that, excpet for what little he has to go by on the phone. I just don't know how to redeem the situation without coming off as bitter or mean. I wanna know. Who's right. Who's wrong. And how do I redeem myself?????? Its been two weeks. I feel so ashamed bc regardless, that's not what type of person I am. I hate playing games. I guess I'm just protecting my feelings.
2007-12-14
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