This question is complicated, I just want honest advice. I have written earlier about me - I dated a girl for 3 1/2 years, things were great, we were in love, even though I only wanted to be with her and nobody else, I chickened out and could never get myself to get married. She took a job on the West Coast, and while I thought we were in a "lets try to make this work long distance thing," she met some other guy and got married 5 months later. They have been married now for 1 year and she called/emailed recently and told me she is not completely happy, that she made a mistake, got desperate and just wanted to be a wife, that she never thought I would want to get married. I told her to divorce then, and she only says that she doesnt know if she can "risk it," as there is no guarantee between us. I really love her, and am so depressed that this happened, it sickens me. Well, our anniversary was Dec. 12, should I even email her and say anything or just do nothing?
2007-12-10
02:38:19
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Marriage & Divorce