I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and have been living together for 2 of them. We even bought a condo and a cat together. Whenever I ask him if we're going to get married, he says yes someday, but implies that someday won't be any day soon. He did take me to look at rings a couple months ago which made me think it would happen soon, but then nothing happened. He told me today that "it's nothing personal," but he "just doesn't care about marriage" the way I do. He claims that marriage is just a contract and that we basically already are married. What should I think of this? We're in our 20s, with no previous bad experiences with exes.
I guess what I'm asking is this: is he going to propose to me someday soon, or am I supposed to be his girlfriend my whole life? Should I be offended that he only thinks of marriage as a contract?
2007-09-02
22:11:04
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Browneyed Girl
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