I dated a man for 1 1/2 years. Recently, I became pregnant. We agreed to get married. He said we would get engaged soon, but I had a miscarriage. He said we would still get engaged, because he was thinking of getting married, but then he has recently started saying he no longer wants to get engaged and would rather just breakup instead. I feel very crushed and have told him many times that this really hurts me alot and he shouldn't do it. He says right now more than anything he wants his freedom (no more kids) and he just wants to break it off. He says he feels pressured into everything. He already has 2 kids from a previous marriage, but I have none and have never been married. When I first met him, he told me he wanted to get married some day and maybe have children. But for the past 6 months, he's been saying he doesn't want any kids and I do, so he should leave because he's changed his mind. My thoughts range from serious depression to disbelief to revenge. What do I need to?
2007-04-27
12:39:19
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Marriage & Divorce