My husband & I used to party hard. We broke up after 2 years, spilt for one & got back together 3 years ago, now married. He may have cheated during those first 2 years. He'd go out drinking without me, text constantly & not say who to, plus a girl told me she slept with him (he denies this). 6 mnths ago I realised I was a drunk & stopped drinking. My husband cut down but still gets drunk sometimes-mostly when he is out without me, which happens more now as I feel uncomfortable in bars. I feel jealous when he's out drinking, because I feel like I miss out on socialising & also because I worry he misses the fun me and finds the drinking etc more enjoyable & that he will want his old lifestyle back. He's doing another musical show soon & that involves drinking... I'm scared. His behaviour above before we first broke up all started with a show. Talking doesn't work-he feels I'm controlling. Essentially, I'm jealous of his relationship with booze & don't want to be as it makes it worse.
2007-03-10
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