My best friend Jill is leaving and will be getting a divorce from her husband, Jim. He wants to file for divorce before *she* does because he doesn't want to admit that his wife filed first or that she's leaving him before he leaves her (she has purchased a house, she goes to settlement this month).
He claims that he's going to put as his reason for wanting a divorce is that she and I are having an affair. (I am a female.)
Frankly, the reason that she spends so much time with me is because she doesn't want to spend time with him, as he is an alcoholic and never pays attention to her (there are other reasons that I won't get into). That doesn't mean that we're sleeping together.
He has no proof that we are having an affair (there's no proof because we aren't having an affair, I love my husband and won't cheat on him with anyone, not even a woman).
Here's my question: will I have to go to court and defend my sexual orientation?
2007-03-03
15:01:01
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Bachman-ette
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Marriage & Divorce