Why am I so doubtful??
I am dating a guy who is great. He's very honest, and I trust that he would never cheat. I know that he has strong character, and that he strives to do the right thing, so my doubts don't stem from him.
I get freaked out though. He is away at school, and I can only see him every other weekend or so. I have a busy life too, so even though the distance sucks, It's probably better . But I can't seem to get over my insecurity. I am an otherwise strong and stable person, but I get anxiety about him- does he feel as strongly as I do? Are his feelings changing? Is the distance thing going to be too hard for him? What if this isn't going to work out? What if I'm wasting my time? What if...what if...
I can't stand that I'm being so fearful- it seems irrational. I think that he might be able to pick up on the fact that I feel insecure, and we all know how unnatractive THAT is!! can anyone relate to this??
Any suggestions on how to change my attitude?
2006-10-09
06:23:16
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Marriage & Divorce