I've known my friend for 19 years and she hardly says a word. Being a christian, I try my utmost to 'love' her but it's hard work. We met at school and she has always been quiet. Every time I ask her something, it's either 'yes', 'no' or 'I don't know'. If I ask her how work is I get an 'ok' and that's it. If I ask her what time she leaves for work I get 'When I'm ready'. Or if I ask her if she's working this Saturday, I get, 'We'll see'. I'm finding this such a strain and she will never go out with me either. If I ask her out, she'll come up with some excuse. She has no friends but me, but I wouldn't even describe our relationship as a friendship, because it's completely one-sided. I don't know where to go from here. She'll ask me plenty, but won't give anything of herself when I ask her return questions. Any tips please?
2006-08-23
20:38:33
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