Friday is our 5 year anniversary and our love life has been a bit ho-hum for the last several years (alright almost our entire marriage). I often wonder if he just sees me as a "nice girl" who doesn't want to try new things (when we met I was a virgin and made him wait about 18 months, I am also a Christian). He also never suggests new things and is very passive during sex- letting me be in control all the time. To try to bring some spark I convinced him to rent a hotel room for Friday night with a jet tub- to further clue him in I left him a gift this morning when I went to work (a small red bag containing a black thong, massage oil and a suggestive card). He found the gift, but didn't email or text message- I don't know if he thought I was crazy. I just don't know what else to do to get his attention. I am becoming afraid that I am going to totally put myself out there tomorrow and have him reject me. I shouldn't feel this way about my husband, should I? I just don't get reassurance.
2006-06-15
12:05:11
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