recently went to Mexico and we went downtown in the shops and a lot of the hispanic men said something like "ohh bonita chikas", "beautiful" or even degrading stuff right to my face. It was a culture shock for me and something which I didn't understand. I met a few very charming latin men, one who gave me a rose, and I thought it was different how he would just blatantly walk by and smile and stare making sure I knew he was looking :) but some of them, such as shop vendors and even airport security said very innappropriate stuff, such as saying my clothes should come off, or they would give me "something else for free." Why are the men there so much more outspoken and excuse me but horny? Not all of them were, but a lot. This is not a racist question, I am just very curious as to why it was so different there than here in America?I'm sure it isn't just Mexico..but a little bit of forwardness is a good thing, just as long as it isn't inappropriate :)
2006-08-14
17:14:49
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