I'm 26, dating someone 15 years older. While the age difference itself doesn't bother me, a few other things about him do:
1) He has 4 children, 2 living with him. I can't help but feel like I will always be second priority at most.
2) Because of his children, we usually can only see each other in the weekends, and even then not every weekend.
3) When we're together, I can really feel that he likes me; however during weekdays he normally doesn't initiate contact. I can understand that he has work, children, and that we've only been seeing each other for 3 weeks, but am I asking for too much too early for him to just say hello? I haven't told him this directly of course as I don't want him to feel like I'm too needy, especially this early.
What do you think of the situation? Am I being paranoid? Rushing? Or are my feelings justified?
2006-09-21
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