I’ve been single for 5 months since my last relationship and have been approached by a friend who I use to have a "thing" with. The issue is after our "thing" something went wrong and we ended up fighting. She even threaten to throw me through a glass door. It's all been sorted out now but I don't know if getting involved with her again is such a smart idea. I do like her and I’m physically attracted to her. Should I just give it a shot?
2006-09-21 01:12:03 · 20 answers · asked by angelic_devil30 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't take this the wrong way, but if you ran out in the street and got hit by a car, would you run back out there? There is a reason you all went separate ways, being friends is OK, but sex is VERY emotional and while you might be on one page, she might be on another. Just be careful, and really, really think this over before you take any action. Good luck!
2006-09-21 05:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds violent, I don't think that's a good idea, unless it was a one of. But throwing someone trough a glass door can kill them, I I don't feel you can have a loving relationship with someone who was willing to hurt you in such a way. You want someone who cares for you.
This is a cliche, but there are plenty more (and better) fish in the sea. Wait a while and a real sweet angel will show up for sure.
2006-09-21 08:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anria A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that your friend has violence tendencies. Even if both of you love each other deeply, it wouldn't work out in the long term if she continues to be physically aggressive. Unless this issue can be worked out between the both of you, it's advisable for you not to pursue a long term relationship with her.
2006-09-21 09:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by rexie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, stay the fawk away! People with violent tendancies DO NOT change, so it's best you keep your relationship friendly only. Getting emotionally involved could lead to serious trouble because she obviously has anger problems.
2006-09-21 09:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Violence, or the threat of violence, is not love. I don't know what it is, but it is not love.
To paraphrase Keb Mo, love shouldn't hurt.
It is good that you have sorted things out, but realize that sorting things out is not an invitation to 'start up a thing'. It is merely awareness on your part.
Pay attention to your awareness.
2006-09-21 08:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Temple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to be picking shards of glass from your skull in the near future, I'd say no.
She needs help for her temper before you go near her.
2006-09-21 09:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a shot through the glass door, go ahead
2006-09-21 08:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think twice about getting involved with someone who has a violent temper....attractive or not!
2006-09-21 11:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! If she was violent with you in the past, what is there to say she wont be violent again?
If you really do want to be with her... Be careful and the first sign you see of trouble go running!
2006-09-21 08:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
threatened to throw you through a glass door?????----somebody would only do that to me once....drop her...look for someone a little more stable/mature.
2006-09-21 09:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋