My partner of 5 years has an ex-boyfriend who anoys me because he spends too much time at our house, gets involved with our roommates, and comes over several times a week to walk our dogs.
I think it's just plain weird, bordering on parasitic.
He's a nice enough guy, but someone who I wouldn't choose as a friend even if he had never had a relationship with my boyfriend.
I have told my boyfriend I do not want him to be such a part of our life together and that includes the lives of our dogs. I have told him this many, many times.
However, without asking me he invited his ex and his ex's now ex boyfriend (the ex of the ex was my boyfreind's best freind until he stole my boyfriend's ex away -- added and circular drama).
The part that bother's me most is my boyfreind never mentioned it to me, the ex just told me that he was coming. I guess my face showed surprise, which he interpreted as an objection. Am I nuts?
I need strangers to tell me what they think of this situation...
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2006-07-19
12:55:39
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