Anyone here ever tried to enjoy a gay lifestyle and had family that supported you but realized that you preferred the straight life and went back to it.
2006-07-19 14:28:30 · 13 answers · asked by h nitrogen 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, just look at any of the so-called "converted" or "Ex-Gays." They are still gay, since they were born that way. It means nothing just because they are no longer currently acting on their true nature and orientation.
I often wonder what kind of mental trauma builds up in such people, who are forced by society or "loved ones" to live a lie. They must have INCREDIBLE stress levels.
2006-07-20 04:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
how in the hell can anyone go back to being staright after leading a active gay lifestyle, etc after the bull, that females put guys up with, if you get them knocked up, 6 months laterr they either toos you out on your ***, or steal your credit cards or wallets, if you dont suooprt the kid, you end up paying for thje rest of yopur godam life until there 18 or 21, etc, and with child suooprt pyments, systems the dude will be lucky to get 10.00 a month or live of from boxed macaroni cheeese, the broadfs bleed the dudes for everything hey were just frre money or trash, after a while, iam not saying a guy shouldent pay for his obligation if there is a kid but wake up guys, the gay lifestyle is the best if you want too live a life of hell, i mean pure hell, then stay straight i went the best route, and wil, never ever look back, neverr, most mariages are a bunnch of bull
2006-07-19 14:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm bisexual. I came out to my family when I was 34,and dating a lesbian. I dated exclusively women for 2-3 years. Now,I happen to be with a male. I love both sexes,but feel since I've got a small child,it's easier,least for me,right now,to have a "straight" relationship. Perhaps if this doesn't last,I'll date women again,but not until she's much older,just too much to have to explain to a 5 year old,you know. Maybe that makes me weak,I dunno,but I'm worried about her,and I do love this man I'm with. So,technically,I suppose,I'm back IN the closet,lol
2006-07-20 03:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope they don't ever go back in even though I am heterosexual I do not like to label or stereotype anyone that pursues this lifestyle. If you are gay BE Proud and stay out of the CLOSET FOREVER
2006-07-19 15:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by realdream1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I did try to stay with a girl and I did have kids. I always knew I was gay, but my family are Baptist and forced their religion down my throat. I have been with my other half now for three years and am happier than ever. I never felt right with a female. I do get my kids every week too, btw, and love them very much.
2006-07-19 19:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by johndavis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's called "intervention." Some people thing homosexuality is a disease that can be treated. So they take their gay subjects and put them in these brainwashing programmes and some end up being "cured." It's all cr@p. Something like the colour of your skin, it's something you're born with; sometimes good, sometimes bad, but still something you've to live with until you die.
2006-07-19 15:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by practical thinking 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being "contained in the closet" means that no one is conscious you're gay. you need to be out of the closet in extreme college, and then technically, you should bypass decrease back into the closet once you went to college, because no one there is conscious you're gay. in case you outed your self in college, once you purchased a job, you need to be contained in the closet back, because, back, no one is conscious you're gay anymore.
2016-12-01 23:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Read some more of the questions and answers here from some actual gay and lesbian people. Your question reveals that you have no concept of who gay people are (what lifestyle are you talking about?) or about the concept of "coming out."
I'm glad that you want to learn, but your question defies an answer.
2006-07-19 15:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tom Cruise? Call 1-800-Scientology-is-so-stoopid-he's-in-denial.
2006-07-19 18:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Guam nut 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because im gay which means i DONT prefer the straight life
2006-07-19 14:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋