I know someone who was molested as a child, and it was reported and all, they have had treatment for the last 25 yrs (on and off for the last 10 or so). She says that she has never gotten over the molestation, and that is why she can't function in society (ie hold a job, refrain from drug use, pay bills, etc). She also has a tendency to not see reality as others do, claiming that things aren't her fault. Is this behavior typical? She seems to think that I'm cold toward the situation, because as I have guardianship of her child until she can get her life together, I do expect her to get a job, and work toward getting her child back, instead of claiming that it's my fault that her life is the way it is. If I truly am being mean telling her to get more counseling to get over it, and to get a job, a car, an apartment, etc. please let me know, because from where I am, it doesn't seem so unreasonable to expect these things.
2006-06-21
07:36:02
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