I've been seeing this guy for a month or so, and we fool around. He gets erections regularly during foreplay, but loses his erection 10-20 seconds after penetration. However, when I give him head he is able to maintain the erection and ejaculate. He seems to always be making excuses when it comes to actual sex (it's cold, drank too much, etc.) but has no problem with any other kind of "action". This morning as he was leaving (with no sex last night cause he didn't want to) he gets on top of me and starts grinding, etc., getting off on it, and it was just weird. I'm 30 years old, not 13! I really do like the guy, should I just come straight out and ask him if he has erectile issues? But what if I'm wrong and he's just,.. different? Something is going on here and it's stressin me out, I really like him and if he's impotent we can get him help. I'm sure I'll get answers like, he's not into you, or you don't do it for him sexually, and I KNOW that is not the case. Anyway, please help!
2007-08-21
06:02:09
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suekiemama@sbcglobal.net
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