Are there things BESIDES being gay (yes, most people assume this, and YES, of course anything is possible... but, couldn't a guy have intimacy issues? or just have some aversion to sex- a hangup? or a lack of testosterone?... I have caught him looking at GIRLIE sites on the comp, so I"m seriously doubting he's gay.. but, for example, he does not like to go down on girls (says it's kind of icky) and he has worn a patch before- testosterone patch- which helped a bit, but he does not really like to wear them... If I don't innitiate it, we just don't ever have sex, though he holds me more than any horny guy ever has... go figure. We are both very attracted to each other.. but I could come to bed in sexy outfit, and he'd just hold me, no hard on... but when we kiss, he seems tense, not relaxed... and when we are successfully 'doing it', and he does not lose his hard on, he just never seems to emotionally 'let go' or even make a sound... is he maybe just afraid all the time now of
2006-08-01
12:48:04
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