is it a phase
2006-08-01 15:56:38 · 6 answers · asked by jbccoffroad 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
no i am not getting gay
2006-08-01 16:02:00 · update #1
should we have a 3 way with another lady
2006-08-01 16:03:38 · update #2
You should have a check up by your doctor. There can be a number of physical and psychological problems that could cause this. Talk about this with your wife. Stuffed anger issues ( not expressing anger in a productive way) is a common reason for what you are experiencing.
You might try marriage counseling if there is no physical reason.
My x-wife and I dated for 3 years and then were married for 17 years, so I have some experience with this. If you are unhappy then your wife is unhappy also.
I had been through some very painful emotional times in my life. Bad enough so that I believed that I could never experience worse emotional pain. Was I ever wrong! The emotional pain I experienced after my wife left me was so bad that I had not thought that it was possible for a person to feel so bad!
I was in a separated and divorced support group for 3 years. One of the men in the group had been in combat in Viet Nam and had been seriously wounded there. He said that he had so much emotional pain that if he had a choice, he would choose to be back in combat, rather than feel what he was feeling due to his divorce.
I say this to illustrate that it is worth it to try and do all the work necessary to save your marriage or to keep it intact!
2006-08-01 16:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that you are not interested in sex "with your wife." You guys need to spice up your sexual life. Boredom does set in for most couples if they are not creative.
2006-08-01 16:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you drink? Maybe you're turning queer. I drank and had depression, and was married for all of two years. Then I turned queer. Mystery solved!
Love, Jack
2006-08-01 16:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a medical checkup. Are you getting gay?
2006-08-01 16:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to check up your sugar level, and other pathology
consult a doctor
2006-08-01 16:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Krishna P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your an a$$ give her some pleasure
2006-08-01 16:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by ask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋