I have been dating my girlfriend for about 4 years now. The first two years, we had that euphoric period of sex multiple times a day. Since then it has dropped off. I have talked to her about it and get different answers, but basically it has come down to the 'its too routine' bit and shes stressed and tired... She's also said things like I should take more control and take charge. I have been pretty passive recently because I've been hoping she would be the one to initiate stuff. I like to act goofy around her and joke around, so I think this a good solution, but I have been shot down so many times by her when I come on softly.
I would like advice as to what kind of things to do and what kind of things to say when I take her out to a nice dinner next time. I am going to be assertive, but I dont know whether to do things like talk kind of dirty or what. I'd appreciate any advice.
2006-08-08
08:26:02
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johndoi
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