My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago. I know this may sound silly but I tend to have a "sixth sense" and usually am dead on accurate when determining how people actually feel. Anyway, she broke up with me due to "no butterflies or spark." This came out of left field, which is why this is weird. However, she has been through a lot. Two brain surgeries and a real jerk of an ex boyfriend (before me), who she claimed she was in love with. When we broke up with me I asked her if she was afraid. Without hesitation she said yes. We didnt discuss this further, even though i should have. What could she be afraid of? Is she afraid to hurt me? Or could it be she was afraid to get involved? Or was she afraid to fall back in love? Do these sound like reasons to break up with a person? Maybe she is pushing me away because she thinks she will get hurt again? Any real advice would be much appreciated. thanks. Btw.. her and I still talk and are still friends.
2007-03-03
08:03:59
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