well......my boyfriend has an obcession with playing music (being in a band) and its becoming all he ever thnks about....and i dont see him that often anyway....and im afraid that .....if he gets in a band.....there wont be any time left for me....i hate to cause conflict and i dont want to take away what he loves but i am afraid that it is going to cause a problem.....what should i do?
2007-03-03 08:20:07 · 3 answers · asked by groundhog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with him.Ask him if maybe you guys can set a time for just the two of you do do something together that does not include music.If he is a good boyfriend then he will understand.Best of luck to ya!!!
2007-03-03 08:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what I would do is just tell him that you happy he loves his music. but what about me? if you cant make enough time for both me and your music guess which one your not gonna get! yes its mean. but if you walk away after you say it. he'll be mad or sad for about a week then he should more then likely be calling you back. and asking you to come back. and he'll say he promises that he will make time for both you and his music. and maybe he'll write a song TO you!
2007-03-03 08:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by off_road_chick_9219 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either go in for the lifestyle he likes or find someone else....
2007-03-03 08:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋