Singles & Dating - 25 February 2007

I like this girl at work... we were co-workers... we talk in the break room about stuff... but she didn't tell me she had a b/f... i found out myself... i always catch her smiling at me... she finally talk to me about her b/f when she wanted to quit her job... anyways i told her i had feelings for her... so she stayed for about 5 more months... still with her b/f and stuff... and flirting with me... the drama was finally over she quit and left me heart broken... it's a longer story but i tried to keep it as short as possible... And couple months later its happening again... but kinda in a different way...

We just got a few new cashiers and guess what lol DeJa Vu is happening again. I think one of the new cashiers likes me, but she has a boyfriend. Here's the story of that.
We made eye contact, but we didn't smile. Than next day we made eye contact again and she smile at me. I saw her at lunch siting by herself and I talk to her. She brought up that she has a boyfriend and saids he's doing bad in school and stuff. We talk about other stuff too. I sometimes catch her looking at me. But I pretend I didn't see it. I don't know why this is happening again I wonder if God is trying to tell me something? Why is this happening again?

2007-02-25 12:50:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

that's what always on my mine, love. please someone answer.

2007-02-25 12:49:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay guys... I know you like girls that have big boobs or whatever but be serious.. not ALL girls can look like a barbie doll.. so exactly what do you look for in girls that are not fat but not skinny either? Girls that don't have the biggest butt or breast? Even what would you look for in a girl that is kinda plump? NOT FAT but has a little extra weight?

2007-02-25 12:49:14 · 1 answers · asked by i miss himm.alott? 2

OK I MET THIS DUDE ABOUT 4 WKS AGO WE CLICK REAL GOOD RIGHT OFF EVERYTHING WAS COOL NOW ALL OF A SUDDEN IT'S SEEM LIKE HE'S NOT AS INTERESTED IN ME AS HE WAS WHEN WE FIRST MET SO I QUITE CALLING HIM THEN HE'LL CALL ME QUESTIONING WHY I HADNT CALL HIM I TOLD HIM THAT IM NOT TRYING 2 SWEAT HIM HE CLAIM IT'S NOT LIKE THAT BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS?

2007-02-25 12:48:54 · 9 answers · asked by laday1@sbcglobal.net 1

k so its starts with this kid i sorta like.who my friend asked if he likes me he didn't answer but he said "y does she like me?" then i was talking to him and he was like "sooo who do you like"
1) does this mean he might of just be asking casue he thinks i like him or b/c he might like me back?

so i just said no1 and he's like same. but i didn't believe him and so i asked again and hes kept saying no1. but then towards the end of the convo he was like i'll tell you if you tell me first.
1)does this mean he's just saying that so he'll find out who i like or b/c he might like me but wants to know if i like him back?


and NO IM NOT SHY. the only reason i don't want to tell him is casue i don't want to lead him on that i do casue im no sure if i do. ik its kind of shallow to not go out wiht him cause hes not that awesommee looking hes really nice and all but...yea
i need some help on wut to do..

2007-02-25 12:48:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a lesbian, and I just started dating again after a LONG hiatus. I was wondering: If I'm out on a date with another girl, who should pay for the meal?

2007-02-25 12:47:50 · 18 answers · asked by Joanna 2

These are the details-
*Me and this girl have been friends for 6 years.
*i told her i had feelings for her.
*she told me she knew and that i kinda acted like i was ashamed of it.
*I said i was'nt but that i just felt kinda weird around her.
*she asked me why but i could not write her back cause we had to go home and i could not sit next to her on the bus cause of assigned seats.
The question is.............how do i explain why i feel wierd around her and how do i tell if she like me or not?????????

2007-02-25 12:46:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my last relationship didnt go that well.... now theres this girl that i like but heres the problen......she doesnt know me and i dont know her,i mean we look at each other in the hall when we pass each other but that it. how do i get her to notice me or better yet what should i do to let her know i exist without coming on to strong or thinking im creapy?? i need serious answers

2007-02-25 12:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by loyal 2 tha bone 3

Okay, Here is my situation I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. At the beginning it was an answered prayer (literally). Actually, it was the best thing for me at the time. It has enabled me to be a stronger woman & learn how to have a "healthy" non-abusive relationship. But, at the same time my intuition tells me we are is as far as we'll ever get. I want more and he just can't or won't give more or move on from the past relationships that have severely damaged his ideas of a commitment & long-term relationship. ( Our ideas of a relationship are completely different) I have reaped his "bad past" long enough, he just will not open up to me on certain issues, & I can't help him with them. So, On the 17th of this month, after a year of discussing & planning I decided to moved out of "our" house & get my own place again. There are just to many issues that absolutely need to be resolved before "this" relationship can grow any further. For myself...If I don't resolve the issues that hinder me I will never be able to be a mentally healthy woman. I can't resolve these issues with no one else, I have to do this myself. No one can help me with them & The same for him. This is reality- not an opinion or emotion. He has helped me in this transition being very understanding & supportive.(We are still together, just living a part) BUT....

My woman intuition tells me that I need to end our relationship completely, I feel like I am not an important part of his life, that he takes me for granted. He says, "I am" but, his actions are totally different from his words. I have almost always felt like I was "on the side", that quality time with me is not an issue for him. He has always pushed the issues of quality time to the side saying, "we have 30 or more years for it, but I NEED more & no matter what I say or do I D'ONT get it. I battled this issue with him for almost 2 yrs now. I am tired of repeating myself.

In the beginning, he was everything in a man I desired... He is truly a good , decent, caring, loving man, but at the same time he is self-centered and extremely selfish. I reap the bad that has happened to him, I love him ....What do I do?

How do I let go the best thing in life that has happened to me?

2007-02-25 12:45:46 · 6 answers · asked by Cajun_ Creater 2

Blonde hair, blue eyes, 5"7' athletic my friends say im very sweet and caring i like to talk and be social i love the outdoors, im not a very lazy person, i like to get out and do stuff i recently asked this question but didn't have enough detail so im going to ask again

2007-02-25 12:45:39 · 5 answers · asked by Uhm_crazy 2

I am a 34 yo male that doesn't want a girlfriend at the prersent moment due to personal reasons beyond my control. I haven't dated in 12+ yrs. Now, I am being called gay when I know I'm not. I do not hate women at all. I have female friends but I am still being called gay. Why is that?

2007-02-25 12:45:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-25 12:44:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

short girls who wear heels to be taller

short girls who wear flats and stay short

2007-02-25 12:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it that when ur in a relationship n u have a dramatic mood swings n u dont want ur loved one 2 b part of that bt they dont want 2 get off the phone w u when u no that ur going 2 4get everything n leave him confused, mad, and some other werid emotion how do u deal w these dramatic mood swings n not get him into them?

2007-02-25 12:43:42 · 4 answers · asked by killer at will 1

i like him but not sure if he like me back

2007-02-25 12:43:28 · 10 answers · asked by chica 2

2007-02-25 12:41:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like a guy who i know likes me. he told me and my friend that he liked me. but i don't get it. he annoys the crap out of me, he has an ego the size of Goliath and yet i still freakin like him!! wat is wrong with me??!! i can't figure out wat to do. he's sending me mixed signals yet he says that he likes me. he hasn't asked me out yet but he's talked about it. i need advice!!?? PLEASE help me?? is something wrong with me??

2007-02-25 12:41:19 · 9 answers · asked by iluvdrma 2

ok theres this boy were really good friends but i know he likes me and he knows i like him but heres the thing he says he to scared to ask me out b/c everybody starts talkin about him but if he really wanted to be together why does he care what other ppl think

2007-02-25 12:40:48 · 4 answers · asked by bbydoll09" 1

What turns you on????
Tell me in full description of your dream girl or what makes you fall head over heels for that special someone!!

2007-02-25 12:40:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-25 12:40:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't be baby and complain about this question, don't answer if you're embarassed that your 35 and still a virgin!

2007-02-25 12:39:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay this is what happened I like this boy and I don't know what to do we talk like once a month. But I don't know if he likes me. But I am scared because what if he says no and tells everyone and it gets around the whole school. My thought was to get one of my friends to give him a note. But I don't know if this is a good idea. And what if he has a girlfriend. Please help me!!

2007-02-25 12:39:25 · 8 answers · asked by Katie M 1

After sex

2007-02-25 12:38:32 · 10 answers · asked by tango6531 2

i left to get away from him and unfortunately my mother still works there so of course she still sees him. and if he doesn't see my mom it upsets him(boo hoo!). so the other night he walks out to go home and he saw my mom and did the male strut like he was glad that my mom saw him. does this sound crazy to you i've been gone from that store since august. do you think he's having trouble letting go?

2007-02-25 12:37:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-25 12:36:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i felt really bad. we were about to make love when she saw my perfectly functional dick and she dumped me right on the spot. i wanted to hurt her right then and there. should i go and punch the b-i-t-c-h in her face or should i get a circumcision instead?

2007-02-25 12:36:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have kids and i want to have sex with my hubby when can i ?

2007-02-25 12:36:16 · 9 answers · asked by SunShine 4

I've been trying to meet people on-line(it hasn't been going so good,i seam to run in to alot of crazy people and fakers)and I got in a huge mess on line. Besides the internet, what else would be a good way to spend time and meet new people?

2007-02-25 12:34:52 · 9 answers · asked by adepressedloser 3

I like this boy and at the beginning of the year he was like you are cute and i started to get intrested in him and him the same.but then when another boy asked him if he like me he was like no.but now he stares at me in the hall way all the time and smiles at me somtimes.but this girl happens to like him and i seen them in the hall way together.but when hes with her he always stares at me like he is doing somthing wrong.so should i just leave him alone or continue to mess with him?

2007-02-25 12:34:40 · 7 answers · asked by BreAunna 1

2007-02-25 12:34:24 · 2 answers · asked by ? 4