I know, it's a toughie. I love my boyfriend and we've been dating for 1 1/2 years. He loves me, and shows me it, but he got a new laptop and it doesn't leave his side. When we go outside, he brings it with him. It's in bed with us. It watches TV with us. It eats with us. I thought I was addicted but it just seems like he can't focus without it. He's also addicted to computer games, and writing them. He doesn't seem to want to talk to me thru IM or phone because he's always working on something like that. (I've tried learning that stuff, it's hopeless for me.)
We love each other very much, so suggesting breaking up isn't an answer. I just wish I could figure out how to get him not addicted to these things and help him focus, and appreciate the simpler things. I don't want to change him, I love him for who he is, but I don't think this is healthy.
Please help?
Thank you :)
2006-08-26
14:37:53
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sheepeshlysheepy
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