I am a christian girl who loves broadway, debate, and philosiphy.....
I have a passion for acting and writing. And I have green eyes and reddish brown hair...... i have been told that i have a great figure.... but for some reason i can't get a guys attention.... I mean i know probably not many guys are attracted to that whole girl next door thing...... but i'm rather friendly and nice.... but i feel like that's a bad thing..... What exactly am i doing wrong?
2006-08-26 14:35:32 · 25 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't stress it girl! You and I are similar in the same respects and it just takes time for guys to over come their own "self-worth" issues. If you are looking at guys your own age look a little older, they are less likely to chase the skirts of the fake bodied blondes (no offense I'm just a 'well built' female).
Don't worry about it, some guy out there wants you but may not be comfortable to say anything. It will happen
2006-08-26 14:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing anything "wrong"..Keep in mind that you are a Christian, and one day God will join you with your future husband when you are ready. You will only have 1 husband, not 50--in other words, you dont need attention from soooo many guys if youre just going to end up with 1.
If you started attracting soooo many different men, you could really end up in some bad situations. You might end up having sex with 2, 3, 4, or even 10 guys by "mistake" thinking that each guy was "the one".
Peace
2006-08-26 14:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy some tight pants and do something different with your hair once in a while. Guys like girl next door types, but not all the time. And guys like vixens too, but not all the time. If you can succefully pull off both sides, guys wil go gaa gaa over you. You don't have to dress sexy all the time, I can't stand women who have to put on every type of make-up just to go to the grocery store for example. But at the same time I like to know a woman loves her body, embraces her sexuality and isn't afraid to flaunt it a little every once in a while. And a lot of it has to do with the way you act, not just the way you look.
2006-08-26 15:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong. Personally, I like the "girl next door" thing. It shows you have respect for yourself and don't whore yourself out to all the guys in the neighborhood. It's not a bad thing that you're friendly and nice, but it's also not a bad thing to flirt a little. Joke around, be playful...That's attractive to some guys too.
2006-08-26 14:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont let that bother u, Ive noticed ppl who hunt hardly find a good catch. So live life in a way your happy, and then someone who finds the way u behave fun would find you.. cos when you go hunting the u would always put the person on a scale, and then if becomes like business, you want something better and nicer... and make sure you network with everyone.. thats the only way u would be able to catch a fish from the sea, or else u would always be fishing in your local pond.... hope it made sense and good luck :D
2006-08-26 14:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by charith_atu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, it s nice your a god fearing christian girl....i respect that......and you sound cool.....and guys do like the girl next door
Unfortunately, you maybe too nice....
Despite what ANYONE may say.....nice is boring....nice is forgettable......nice doesn t appeal to guys or girls....Be a good person, but don t be nice....big difference
Try to get alittle more edgy.....get an attitude.....an attitude brings you value.....it lets ppl know you are something....i m not suggesting a bad attitude tho.....Be fun, be flirty......
And dress more edgy too....you don t have to dress like a whore to attract guys......both guys and girls notice attention to detail.....alotta attitude can come from your outfit........it can give a really sexy vibe about a person.....
hope this helped....
have a great day!!
2006-08-26 14:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by I.D. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you.Time is coming when you will date somebody.Take it easy,relax,do not worry about it. As you describe yourself,you are a beautiful Baby.The right guy who is coming to you,will be at the same intellectual level like you,and he will enjoy what you enjoy;like be a christian,loves writing,and on and on.Be patient....He must be a christian too, if you want to be happy.
2006-08-26 14:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with AJ607.... you sound attractive, intelligent and have a lot to offer the right guy. And yes, we are attracted to the girl next door ;) Maybe you're trying to attract the wrong guys? Keep being confident and being yourself, and good luck :-)
2006-08-26 14:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Porterhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nuthin actually wrong wit u. U just haven't met rite kinda guy yet. U have nuthin to worry about. If u be a little more social and explore a little, u might find someone. Good Luck!
2006-08-26 14:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by damaged_roses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a fun, pretty, fun girl. don't give up. I know it can seem hard sometimes but being yourself is all you really can do...and i'm sure yourself is plenty. Waiting and having fun will be worth it when you find a guy who thinks your the world.
Hang in there. It'll happen.
and i'll even bet you there are many guys lookin in your direction but you are completely oblivious too it.
2006-08-26 14:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by The best Me there is!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋