My boyfriend of almost ten months left yesterday. He's only a 40 minute plane ride away, but I miss him so badly. I'm really excited for him at the same time, because If I was in college right now I know I would be having the time of my life.. He may come home for the Jewish holidays (Oct2), but if not, I'll see him in November. I know for sure I would never cheat on him, & I'm pretty sure he wouldnt cheat on me, bc he did before when we were going out for 2 months, & hes cried to me about the guilt and whatnot. I really believe he's sincere, but about a week ago he told me that he loved me but wasn't 10000% sure anymore that it was forever, although thats what he wants. I guess I agree with him. Anyway, in 2 years I plan on joining him at his college and living with him in his apartment. Is this a good idea? Or am I just screwing myself over in the end? I really do love him & I can't see myself with anybody else at this point. It's really not what I want. What should I do?
2006-08-26 14:35:30 · 8 answers · asked by vivalavey9o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I first read this I just had to answer. My girlfriend is going off to college and she's just a 30 minutes away and she cheated on me when we were first together for two months and now we almost been together a year and I can really see the change in her and how much she truly loves me and vows to never hurt me again. However i'm still a junior in highschool so i wont be able to move in to her apartment until two years where we plan on going to school together. I cant see myself with anybody else but her so to help you with your question i'll say yeah go. I can tell you love him so why not. i'm sure you will not be screwing yourself over in the end.
2006-08-26 14:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, that is two years away. However I don't want you getting your hopes up about all of your plans going as you have planned them. Life loves to throw curve balls and it will most likely happen to you. I would focus on the issue you have at hand which is preserving the relationship you have even though it is long distance. The sad truth is that when most guys (or girls) go to college they end up getting involved with dating new people on campus. I hope for the best for you but remember it is a real possibility that when comes home later this year he may tell you that it is..well...over. I wish both of you the best and hope you prove me wrong. Good luck!
2006-08-26 14:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Karina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is also a great time for you to cotemplate on where this relationship is going. This will give you time for yourself and time to get use to the idea that your life should not evolve around him. I dont doubt that he loves you but anything can happen from today and for the next two years. So just try to have fun and do not expect to much out of this relationship.
2006-08-26 14:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing two years is a really really long time for him to be around other girls, cute girls at that, every day until you get there. You two will probably not last until the end of the school year. Have fun without him!
2006-08-26 14:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
10 months isn't as long as it seems :-\ And two years is a long time away. I'd take it one step at a time.
2006-08-26 14:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by sheepeshlysheepy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh just forget about it if you have to wait 2 years to move.
2006-08-26 14:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by NOVA50 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The good thing about fights is that when things cool down people feel bad about what they have said, and forgive one another.
2016-03-26 21:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you and him the best
2006-08-26 14:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋