I began dating in June (after a long time off the scene) and met several wonderful women, then I found someone special. Before we started sleeping together, we agreed to an exclusive relationship. The connection has been powerful and fast but we both feel this might lead to a LTR. Today, I was using her computer to check my email and local news when the 'auto type' feature of her web browser showed me something upsetting: she's recently browsed M4W postings on Craigslist, about a half dozen. My first impulse is to be straightforward and ask her about it. I know she will probably say I was snooping, but that would just be a distraction from the real issue. If she is bored or unsatisfied, or some other needs are going unspoken or unmet, I want to know. I see this as an opportunity to resolve any doubts. Am I being paranoid? Is it none of my business? Or should I face this head on and not stick my head in the sand? I'd appreciate feedback from women, 40+.
2006-08-24
15:22:24
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ArmsAndMan
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