2006-08-24 15:02:52 · 11 answers · asked by chic_a_cherry_cola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take her out to a nice resteraunt
2006-08-24 15:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by fenderstrat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All our schedules can be totally hectic, it's what life is all about. It is the moments that we take and make for others that count. No matter how things are during the day, at some point people can dial a number, and say "hey, I was thinking about you". With all this modern day lightning technology, there isn't any excuse, is there? Having flowers delivered would be another great way. Not everyone is sensitive to peoples' needs though, and what may seem important to some, will surely be taken for granted by others. Just make sure you are both on the same wavelength.
2006-08-24 22:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he takes good care of the women he doesn't have to show anything of his hectic schedule. She is gonna know what is important for him is impotent for her future too.
One question if the women can participate in something who he do - shearing Little time together could be very good for relationship.
2006-08-24 22:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can call you while he is at work on his cell phone and let you know that he is thinking of you.He can make a little bit of time out of his day to see you for lunch or dinner or maybe just a really nice phone call.He can make plans to be with you and stop his busy schedule for the day just to be with you.He can send you flowers to let you know he missies you.
2006-08-24 22:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by cherie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing her a Michael Bolton song or Percy Sledge's "When A Man Loves A Woman".
2006-08-24 22:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE CAN START BY NOT MAKING EXCUSES FOR IGNORING HER NEEDS ON A DAY-TO-DAY BASIS.
HECTIC SCHEDULE OR NOT, YOU CANNOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BECOME SO SELF-ABSORBED YOU FORGET TO BE THE PARTNER YOU WANT TO BE WITH.
WHEN YOU TWO CROSS PATHS, WINK AT HER AND ASK HER HOW THE MOST WONDERFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD IS.
CALL HER AT WORK FOR TWO MINUTES TO TELL HER THAT SHE WAS ON YOUR MIND. TAKE A MINUTE TO MAKE HER DAY. IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD, TOO.
LEAVE HER NOTES WHERE SHE WILL FIND THEM. MAKE IT PLANS FOR A DATE NIGHT, OR JUST A SIMPLE "DID I EVER TELL YOU THAT I APPRECIATE YOU FOR (FILL IN THE BLANK)"
DO NOT SIMPLY THANK HER FOR SOMETHING, BUT TELL HER SHE IS THOUGHTFUL.
AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK, WHEN YOU GET HOME FROM WORK, TELL HER TO KICK BACK AND YOU WILL GET DINNER. TELL HER TO TAKE A BUBBLEBATH AND THINK OF A GOOD MOVIE TO WATCH WHILE YOU CLEAN UP.
WHEN YOU ARE SITTING AND TALKING ABOUT STUFF, AND YOU SEE HER GET TENSE, ASK HER WHAT HER PERCEPTION IS, THEN TELL HER WHAT YOUR INTENT WAS. CONFLICTS ARISE WHEN PEOPLE SPEND LOTS OF TIME TOGETHER,AND BEGIN TO ASSUME "THEY KNOW ME SO WELL, THEY SHOULD JUST KNOW WHAT I MEANT". BUT PERCEPTION DOES NOT EQUAL INTENT. THIS SHOWS EMPATHY.
ASK HER ABOUT HER DAY. APPRECIATE HER EXPERIENCES. WALK IN HER SHOES AND TELL HER WHAT YOU SEE. IT SHOWS HER YOU CARE ABOUT HER FEELINGS.
FLIRT WITH HER AND MAKE A DATE NIGHT ONCE OR TWICE A WEEK. CATER TO HER EMOTIONAL NEEDS AND HER EGO. TREAT HER LIKE YOU DESIRE HER. TRUST ME, YOU WILL NOT REGRET THIS!!!! (ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU GET SOME LATER)
GIVE TO HER WHAT YOU WANT FOR YOURSELF. IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THAT IS, THEN STANDARD WAYS TO SHOW YOU CARE ARE TO GIVE SOMEONE:
1-YOUR TIME. MAKE TIME FOR THEM
2-CONSIDERATION. SHOW EMPATHY, COMPASSION
3-GRATITUDE. APPRECIATION, RESPECT
4-ATTENTION. ADMIRATION, AFFECTION
YOU COULD PLAN A SPECIAL NIGHT (AND YOU SHOULD SOME TIME), BUT THAT WON'T MEAN AS MUCH AS MODIFYING YOUR DAILY BEHAVIOR. MAKE SURE YOUR BEHAVIOR MATCHES HOW YOU SAY YOU FEEL. DON'T EXPECTHER TO BE AUTOMATICALLY FULFILLED BY YOUR MERE PRESENCE IN THE MARRIAGE. ACTIVELY KEEP FULFILLING HER.
2006-08-24 22:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MY HUSBAND WKS LOTS OF HRS BUT HE ALWAYS FINDS TIME TO SAY I LOVE U AND HE DOES LIL THINGS LIKE INVITE ME TO TAKE A SHOWER W/ HIM OR TAKE ME TO BREAKFEAST ON SAT MORNIG BEFOR HEGOES TO WK MAKES ME A POT OF COFFEE EVEN THOUGH HE DOESNT DRINK THE STUFF WRITE A POEM OR LEAVE A LIL NOTE AND SOME TIMES THE LIL 45 SECOND CALLS DURING THE DAY TO JUST SAY LOVE YOU BABE SEE YOU IN A LILWHIE JUST MAKES MY DAY TO KNOW HE CARES ENOUGHT TO CALL EVE N WHEN THINGS ARE HECTIC AT WK GOOD LUCK HOPE IT HELLPED
2006-08-24 22:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set a special time for her and keep it
take Little things for her about four times per week
call her on the phone every now and then
and remember her birthday
2006-08-24 22:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers and a romantic card always work for me. I think the best reason to give little gifts is for no reason at all. The price doesn't matter ( as long as shes not materialistic) as long as its from the heart.
2006-08-24 22:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call her even if you only have a minute to talk. "I only have a minute to talk but just wanted you to know...." Send her a text message if you don't have time to call. Have flowers delivered to her.
2006-08-24 22:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to really prove that is to constantly tell her and any chance you get spend it with her
2006-08-24 22:05:56 · answer #11 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋