ok lets hear if you people have ever heard of a dillemma like this b4...?

Question

there is trhis girl that i reely like alot she is my perfect girl,my soulmate.well she was hurt reely bad in her last relationship and the porr sweety is still trying to pick herself back together and she said all she wnats is to be friends for right now,so i said that's ok i would do anything for her,well i asked her if we could start tlaking on the phone so we can actually tlak and we cna be friends ya know? and she never wrote me back yet what would this mean? should i be catching something here? does she like me and is too afraid to talk to me or does she reely not give a s.hit about me and i should just give up and move on? only answer if you have any clue what love is and the ups and downs it is please hlep though just i don't need any ignorant answers ya know? pleez help

Answer 1

She is trying not to hurt your feelings. She's really not interested. Trust me. OR Have one of your friends ask one of her friends if you need it confirmed.

Answer 2

If she's in as bad of shape as you made it seem she may just need time to recuperate. Someone who tries to get in her face now runs the risk of catching the rebound baggage. I mean, if you were the guy that stood by her in her tough times she'll remember that (I know I would). She may see you as the guy who saw her at a bad time and didn't bail out on her. When she comes back to her regular self, you may be the one she'll consider. After all, she probably doesn't need someone hitting on her right now. She needs a friend. Do you really want everything to go down the drain, friendship AND potential for more, all because you couldn't wait?

Answer 3

I would give her the space that she has asked for. If she wants to get in touch with you, she knows how to find you. She's probably is just taking a break to get herself together. If I were you, I would move on. If it's meant to be, she will contact you. Also, you don't want to be the rebound guy anyway, those relationships never work out.

Answer 4

That would depend how long it has been since you wrote to her entirely.
If you like her that much, give her time and space.
Do what she asks and be friends. If you pressure her in any way the outcome will be what you dont want- and thats for sure.
Give it a while, let her come to you now. You've said your bit.
I hope this helps a little.

Answer 5

I'm really sorry to say but i dont think she is interested by the sounds of it. How about you wait and see if you hear from her now...you've sent her a msg so the balls in her court now. See if she contacts you...if she does then thats good then if she doesnt then move on. We've all had those people that we thought we're "perfect" for us but they dont always turn out to be. Never mind though...there's plenty of girls out there!

Answer 6

I'm sorry to tell you, but I think you are wasting your time. If she was crazy about you...she would have written a reply right away.
I've been in her shoes. I received letters...I didn't throw them away, but they didn't touch me. I took a pen and checked each letter for mistakes in spelling......with red pen. I never wrote back. It's not like I flirted with those people. Did she ever flirt with you? As I said, don't waste your time with her.

Answer 7

Sounds like she is trying to ease out the door. Don't take it personal, she probably thinks it is the best decision for herself. Just pray on it, and you will be fine, trust me.

Answer 8

Play hard to get and give her some space. She'll realize how special you are. Trust me.

Answer 9

It might just have to do with she is still afraid of getting hurt and letting you too close. Hopefully she'll open up to you and relize you care about her.

Answer 10

WHEN A GIRL TELLS YOU SHE JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS SHE MEANS SHE DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU. THATS WHY YOUR GETTING THE COLD SHOULDER.MOVE ON MY FRIEND SHE ISN'T WORTH YOUR TIME.
EVERYONE NEEDS FRIENDS AND IF SHE CAN PUSH PEOPLE AWAY THAT WANTS TO BE FRIENDS SHE ISN'T ALL THAT.