The current situation between the girl and I is quite
unpredictable. We see each other at work almost
everyday at lunch time (except the last 2 days). There
are 6 of us that eat lunch together at work.
This girl has not fulfilled any commitment we planned
to do together. She suggested we go to movies
sometimes in January but later cancelled it. She
suppose to meet up to discuss some issues but later
said there was nothing to talk about. By the way, this
happened because I told her about 5 weeks ago that I
would like her to join me and another female friend of
mine I like to watch a soccer game. This drove her nut
and was quick to say NO bcuz she plans to celebrate
father's day with her Dad which was understandable.
We are both adult but she's 3.7 yrs younger. Do u think we can ever solve this puzzle?
2006-08-24 15:06:54 · 17 answers · asked by roadlearner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The last time I saw, I asked her when will I see her again...she said never. But later initiated a HUG before heading to her cubicle. She will be heading back to school in a few days and I might not get to see her again. I don't plan to call. A gave her a card and book the last time I saw her (i.e. last week friday)
2006-08-24 15:11:04 · update #1
She may just like your friendship but is afraid that if you think that there is no chance then you will stop talking to her all together. Being in a work environment you need to be very careful who you are with and if you upset that person the repercussions that may have on the work place. I would say she is not interested in anything more then friendship. So maybe you should talk it out with her. Let her know that just b/c she isn't interested in dating you that doesn't mean the friendship has to end. You never know maybe when she gets to know you more on the friend level she may change her mind. Or she could just be waiting till work is not an issue.
2006-08-24 15:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She just enjoys your company as a coffee buddy at work only. There really isn't any puzzle. She is not interested in seeing you after work hours.
2006-08-24 22:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is not what you want to hear but you need to move on. She hugged you because she cares about your feelings. Sounds like a nice girl. But, she is NOT, I repeat, Not interested in a relationship..find someone who appreciates what you have to give them.
2006-08-24 22:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has some reason she's avoiding you....cuz she doesn't want you to know...have you tried talkin to her??? just try talking to her when you guys are alone so that there are no distractions....ask her for the honest truth...why have you been cancelling plans to go out??? or are you avoiding me for some reason???? tell her how u really feel....and then maybe u'll find the answer....i hope this helps u....
2006-08-24 22:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just not into a guy who has the balls to ask her to tag along on a date to a soccer game with ANOTHER CHICK!!!
2006-08-24 22:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, that's how it works. A suitable answer gets 10 points!
2006-08-24 22:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not interested and cthe games she is playing is old let her go move on with your life cause their is better things you could be doing instead of being made a fool out of let her go good luck
2006-08-24 22:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like her? Does she know you like her? Do you let her know that you like her? That may be the problem. How does she act around you the rest of the time?
She may just be confused.
2006-08-24 22:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up dude. You should not have asked her to join you with another girl.
2006-08-24 22:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree... she doesn't sound interested... but maybe it isn't the right time in her life for a relationship.
2006-08-24 22:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋