My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. We're 16. We never fight, but the other day we had a huge blowout fight and nearly broke up but didn't. It was about 'love'. Long story short, he could tell that I wanted him to say it (though I never ever mentioned anthing about love to him.) And he told me that he really really liked me but "doesn't, can't, and won't ever" be able to tell me he loves me. Hes only told 1 girl he loved her and she broke his heart and after her, his definition of love has changed. he "likes/cares about me as much if not more than he ever did about her", but now his new def. of love is like longterm, lifelong binding instead of a raw emotion, and he says he cant see himself telling any girl he loves them until he finds "the one" he plans on marrying. i love him in the raw emotional way (not his super deep def.) and it hurts to kno that in his eyes he doesnt 'love' me. Girls, what would u do? Guys, how should i take this?
2006-07-05
08:09:36
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sillygoose08
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