I have found that I have this fear of being judged by others and it's keeping from making new friends. It has caused me to have an overwhelming sense of lonelyness. It's killing me to long for a relationship with a beautiful women and not be able to have it. I'm dying inside, slowly but surely.
2006-07-05 07:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by Dr.C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hang out with new people, or become a cheerleader.
2006-07-05 08:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Shelby Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are exercises and activities one can do to overcome the appearance of being shy. The best advice is to FORCE yourself to be interesting and entertaining. MAKE yourself knowledgeable about whatever it is your age and cohort group find interesting. Know current events in this field, know the history of the music or art or business. If you have something to
say and are able to engage in a battle of wits you will be so interesting people will seek out your company. This takes work on your part.
2006-07-05 15:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by elvislives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How i got over my shyness is I went and worked where I had to talk to people u have to talk or they won't stop by your booth and buy things that helped me a lot and i am not as shy as i used to be
2006-07-05 15:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got over my shyness by dating this really shy guy and he wouldnt talk to any1 but me but one day I decided not to worry about what people thought of me so I just walked up to so ppl and started talkin to them!
2006-07-05 15:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by love_basketballgurl09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that you are 100% powerless over how people act or react, so you just need to let go and be yourself.
2006-07-05 15:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by raykpcs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋