Other - Family & Relationships - 16 July 2006

We are both in our 30's. And I have never had sex with anyone. He was the first guy I fooled around with. When he was touching me down there it hurt. So he asked me if I had herpes. Then I was very offended for him asking such a question. He said it could be conjenital. But my parents were virgins before they got married. I am East Indian and my fiance is White. In my culture it is inapproperate for unmarried people to have sexual intercourse or even fool around. So I was hurt when he asked me that. He mentioned to me one time that when he was in high school his girl friends sister had herpes and she was a virgin. And that's why he asked me if I had herpes. He appologized for being insensitive and we got enaged a month later. He is a great guy in every way. He is loving, he is very encouraging, affectionate, a great cook etc, etc. But him asking me this question really hurt my feelings. So am I over reacting? Is it a normal question a guy should ask?

2006-07-16 14:54:00 · 6 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1

2006-07-16 14:53:53 · 18 answers · asked by NEOTEH 4

my ex who is the father of my child, realized he had made a mistake about leaving me. for the last few weeks i have been talking back to him, and making him feel bad cuz of what he done. he willing to do anything and i mean anything to get me back and try to work things out. i have been telling that i want nothing to do with him, but i still kind of do. what should i do? work things out or move on.

2006-07-16 14:50:29 · 28 answers · asked by Tsunami 2

A friend(23 yrs old) has got pregnant but her boyfriend did not want her to deliver the babe and broke off with her. My friend insisted on delivering her first child as she still loves her boyfriend and she does not want to kill the babe. However, her family did not understand and despised her. Now she has to rent a room outside and stay alone. With the serious morning sickness, she can no longer work. She is crying every day in her rented room....... And I do not know what advices to give to her.

2006-07-16 14:43:59 · 47 answers · asked by Love is the only thing you need! 1

is it weird for a girl to ask a guy out? HELP ME!

2006-07-16 14:43:36 · 11 answers · asked by Genny gennie gen gen~~~~~~~~~!!! 1

So there was this lady at work that was braiding my daughters hair. The first time she did it I did not even ask her to do it. The second time I asked her to do it and she was like sure no problem. She is doing it on the clock so its not like she is getting NOTHING for doing it as she is doing my daughters hair and I am taking on her work load. But come the third time I still felt kind of bad and I gave her $10 which is also what I paid a friend of mine to do braids in my daughters hair not to mention smaller braids and designs...this lady just did corn rows. Now mind you that she did not ask me for money I was just giving it to her. But after she got done she said to me next time give me $15. I thought she was joking and just laughed it off though it seemed rude to me. But then she did another co-workers daughters hair. This co-worker did not ask her to do her daughters hair either she just did it. CONTINUED...

2006-07-16 14:41:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you have a gf/ lady/ wife/ women do you like it when they do thinks 2 you, you know wat i mean or do you like 2 do every thing and not only just sex otheir stuff with the sex stuff im ok

2006-07-16 14:38:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it that when a some guys complement a girl and says the girl says thank...then...
they feel need to go farther and talk to them more ....when the girl has indecated that they r not interested at all...

how do u not rudly say that u r not interested..
example:
i had a guy who from a car window passing by in a parking lot said
''Hey u got nice eyes...soo i then ran into a store...little did i know that he woudl come running after me.
(I was needless to say very nervous)..and tried to get my number and all that....

ssooo maybe the question is how do i get ones self out of the stiuation

2006-07-16 14:33:57 · 13 answers · asked by me 2

My sister is the worst sister ever. I want to get back at her the best way possible. Please tell me your ideas of what I can do to her that would make her mad.

2006-07-16 14:23:53 · 15 answers · asked by Al M 1

2006-07-16 14:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by JassyJoules 1

My boyfriend thinks I am hiding something from him. He also think Im cheating on him and I keep telling him I'm not.

2006-07-16 14:02:47 · 19 answers · asked by ushergryl 1

2006-07-16 14:00:48 · 13 answers · asked by RCDS1234 2

2006-07-16 13:59:31 · 6 answers · asked by whoisthisisme 2

This may sound weird but i know tons about guys cause all my friends are guys. i know what they like, how they think, what they want in girls, and what they do when they like a girl. so, yeah.

2006-07-16 13:55:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend went away to camp and I can't get her out of my heads. Pastimes with her keep going through my head and meake me miss her more. For example, I keep having this go through my head, and it is really worrying me: I am sitting outside and she comes over and gives me a kiss and says she loves me, and then holds my hand. I CAN'T GET THESE THINGS OUT OF MT HEAD!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2006-07-16 13:49:11 · 3 answers · asked by thinkGREEN 3

Today when me and my boyfriend went for lunch this guy came up to me slapped my *** and asked 4 my celll number. I asked the wow thing. my boyfriend hit him in the nose he fell off we left. His parents say they wanna sue because his nose broke. MY boyfriend says i should sue him first for sexual harrasment, should i?

2006-07-16 13:44:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-16 13:42:49 · 6 answers · asked by terribletm 2

2006-07-16 13:42:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my girlfriend in school, i took her away from my friend and i soon i heard she was withanother guy but it was a lie so i cut her then i went out with her friend for a day and i didnt like her friend but then i found out she was with my friend she broke up with him and at the last day of school me and her played spin the bottle and me and her made out and now i dont now if i should go back ot with her?!????????????????????

2006-07-16 13:40:31 · 12 answers · asked by cadillac grills cadillac spills! 3

what exactly does that mean??also does being in love with your best friend really ruin your relationship?/

2006-07-16 13:40:30 · 8 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2

are there any guys that would date a model even if he didnt get to see her alot?

2006-07-16 13:33:32 · 17 answers · asked by sexi lexi$$ 3

2006-07-16 13:18:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband said that in indian culture the man names the babies is this true ?? what we do just get pregnant carry it nine months squeeze it out and say now hubby u name it thats not fair...

2006-07-16 13:15:19 · 15 answers · asked by blk_female_x 2

Is it normal to want sex EVERY DAY and sometimes 3 or 4 times a day! Should I get help for ths?

2006-07-16 13:12:16 · 14 answers · asked by prinsisss 4

2006-07-16 13:06:48 · 7 answers · asked by Curious 1

2006-07-16 13:04:03 · 4 answers · asked by Halston S 1

if you have anything to say to help me with this problem, that would be great.

Dont be like me, make sure you keep positive and think on the bright side

2006-07-16 12:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by realpleya08 2

She takes things from her brother and I, without asking. I've grounded her, taken things away and tried giving her more responsibilities such as watching her brother for few hours while I'm at work. She gets paid for the babysitting, but I can't get her to do her chores either. I can't handle the backtalk and sassiness to me. She is very rude to others, and disrespectful to strangers and to me (mom). What can I do? I'm at my wits end.

2006-07-16 12:37:25 · 13 answers · asked by sunnyrays61 2

i still love my ex bf alot and i want to date him but i have a new bf but i dont really love him i want to stay friends with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings one of my friends says he loves me alot so i know if i break up with him it will break his heart is there any way i can break up with him without hurting his feelings if so please tell me.

2006-07-16 12:33:56 · 27 answers · asked by eaw_mkj 2

He was going through his e-mail and I noticed that he had an email from Yahoo that said he violated a policy! I told him to open it up so that I could see exactly what it was that he had said. Well, the female was asking a question that had nothing to do with sex but somehow he told her what she should do (very explicit)! Beer bellied b/f would drink beer and play video games all day. He would complain that my kids (from a previous relationship)could clean up instead of him. Whenever I would ask him to cook dinner he would say no. He was an asshole! I am so glad that he has moved out today!!!! Now I can really LIVE!!!! (Just wanted to share that with you all)

2006-07-16 12:33:51 · 20 answers · asked by meme1972 2