why is it that when a some guys complement a girl and says the girl says thank...then...
they feel need to go farther and talk to them more ....when the girl has indecated that they r not interested at all...
how do u not rudly say that u r not interested..
example:
i had a guy who from a car window passing by in a parking lot said
''Hey u got nice eyes...soo i then ran into a store...little did i know that he woudl come running after me.
(I was needless to say very nervous)..and tried to get my number and all that....
ssooo maybe the question is how do i get ones self out of the stiuation
2006-07-16 14:33:57 · 13 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Say "go away -- I'm not interested - - thanks anyway" and leave it at that. Are you really young or something? You need to not go places alone if you are unable to say NO. If some guy chases you in a store, you have no reason whatsoever, especially not knowing him, to make him "feel good about himself" -- that is not your responsibilty. Guys like that know how to come on to young girls and know they are scared and afraid to say no.
2006-07-16 14:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should feel good guys pay that much attention to you. Just say "Thank you for the compliment but I have to be going." If the man persists, or you have to say that all the time because guys are flocking to you, start carrying a little dog with you like the stars do. That is a huge turnoff and guys will run away. But then the paparazzi will be after you. Never ending battle for you babe.
2006-07-16 14:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you didn't make your question very clear, I think I know what you're asking. Strange men who offer up a compliment are looking for an opening, it's the beginning of a pick-up. Most of the time I ignore them. It may seem rude, but you have to be careful these days. If you think you need to respond, say, "Thanks, my boyfriend thinks so, too," and keep walking. The next line thrown at you, provided they're too dense to get the hint, say, "I'm sorry, I'm not interested in speaking with you."
2006-07-16 14:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by misslabeled 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say thank you, and go your own way. If he pursues, well it's normal. Just remember you have every right to say no. And if he persists, ask him to please leave. If not, you leave. If your leaving is not a good option, ask for help.
Always be cool and calm. Don't get excited, it could make situation worse.
Guys do not read minds. How is he to know you aren't interested, unless you tell him so specifically?
Just curious, why aren't you interested? Because you don't know him? No wonder I doon't get to meet women. Sounds pretty difficult to meet people if you don't already know them.
2006-07-16 14:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jay V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have really gr8 eyes for him to run in2 the store after u....i can see why you`d be nervous...maybe he just made a spur of the moment decision i dunno u jst tell them ur with sum1 or scream i suppose !!! or a swift lick in the baws lol
2006-07-16 14:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get a complement,just smile and walk away, be happy, if not then the guy may think you are interested , he may look for more
2006-07-16 14:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by tay3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "sorry i gotta go but nice meeting you" and if he asks for a number say "i dont give out my number to anyone sorry" and then make a get away!
2006-07-16 14:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by qwerty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whaas be yo meenin en sheet!
2006-07-16 14:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
2006-07-16 14:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he reminds you of your brother and you are either married or gay.
2006-07-16 14:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lynda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋