Maybe I'm a hermit, but I really don't like it when people just show up to visit without calling me first to see if I'm busy. I am busy a lot, so maybe I'd never visit, but I like it that way! I have found this getting very irritating, but don't know whether I should just ignore it, or find a way to deal with it. I like to be prepared when people come over (clean up the house, baby proof for little children, close doors that I don't want people to go into, etc.). When people just show up, I am not relaxed, I worry about my stuff getting wrecked by kids, and I spend my time stressing about what I was supposed to be working on. So... opinions, anyone? I have no problem being social, but I prefer to do it on my own terms (and usually somewhere other than my house). HELP! I don't want to be rude, either.
2006-06-11
12:22:39
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wibbie
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