I know they wouldn't tell me to my face ....
2006-06-11 12:30:29 · 7 answers · asked by brandicharbo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
out of the "friends", find one you trust and ask them
2006-06-11 12:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all find out if the friend did actually say what you have been told people can be nasty in this world for no reason.
Secondly, approach your friends and say I don't bad mouth you behind you backs and I appreciate it you don;t do it to me and then ask them what the problem is, mayby the person that told you what they were saying can come with you and if they don;t you know they are lying!
Failing that get some new friends
2006-06-11 14:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, this is a good life lesson darling. People will do this for the rest of your life! Human nature is to be a butt-hole! Most anyway. Some wonderful humans that I call Higher Evolved humans do not partake in this horrible act but for the rest of your life people will behave like this. And no, they will never tell you this to your face. If your really and truly want to change the rotten world we live in, try not to ever do that to anyone else because you are aware of how it makes you feel. There is an old proverb said by an old black woman i used to know and she would say this: " make sure that everything that comes out of your mouth is SUGAR because you'll never know when you'll have to eat it". That is the best proverb ive ever heard in my life so far to date. Remember this and you will do well in life!
2006-06-11 12:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just couldn't be. If they were your friends, they would not be talking bad about you. A real friend would talk to you if they saw something about you that needed help. They would not go to others and laugh and talk about you behind your back.
2006-06-11 12:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Janis G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they talk about other people to you? If yes, then you are probably a topic of conversation when you are not around. Doesn't mean it has to be a bad conversation. People just tend to run off at the mouth.
2006-06-11 13:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them to they face and if they lie then rock they jaw cause they your friends and if they really were then they wouldn't talk about you like that or if they are talking about you.
2006-06-11 12:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Tomato 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would only know if someone narced them out. if you think they have a problem with you just ask and if they are talking **** behind your back then they are not your "friends"
2006-06-11 12:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋