If you had a realy good friend and he has been friends with you for a long time and you find out he likes you I mean realy likes you but he is more like a lil bro and I would never I mean never think of him more then a friend how do I tell him I don't like him like that without hurting his feelings ?????
2006-06-11 12:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by brandicharbo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell him that your friendship with him is too important to you to risk messing it up with a romantic relationship. You can use my story as an example if you want.
You see, I had (see the operative word here, had) a best guy friend and we decided to start dating. We eventually ended our romantic relationship (on good terms) and tried to go forward with the friendship but it was very awkward. We lost the closeness we had as friends and that hurt more than breaking up with him did.
2006-06-11 12:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Stacy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter what is going to hurt he's feelings. Why don't your try looking at him in another way. Then see how you feel. Your best friends are a lot of times the one.
2006-06-11 19:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to tell him without hurting his feelings. The best you can do is offer to still be friends and not let it affect the friendship.
2006-06-11 19:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to do it without hurting his feelings the best way is to just tell him now before it goes any farther. good luck
2006-06-11 19:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by lady_to_know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you dont mean to hurt his feelings but..you will...Hopefully you can remain friends no matter what..
2006-06-11 19:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by *toona* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be completely honest with him. Be gentle and kind to him, there is no easy way to break the news.
2006-06-11 19:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way your going to hurt his feelings but if you do love him, go for it. good luck
2006-06-11 19:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEFORE MAKING THAT DECISION, LOOK INSIDE YOURSELF TO SEE WHAT IS IT THAT YOU COULD FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM OVER. IF YOU FIND NOTHING THEN MAKE SURE YOU STILL KEEP YOUR FRIEND.
2006-06-11 19:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by facemario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋