I really like this guy from my church but we only talk on sundays (when i go to church) i have his cell number and have texted him a few times but he hasn't wrote back does this mean he doesn't like me and should stop texting I want to seem desperate or anything.
2006-06-11 14:28:53 · 18 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if i do call this guy NOT TEXT him this time what should i leave on the message i dont think i have the courage yet to say how i really feel i so scared of rejection
2006-06-11 14:56:32 · update #1
that's happened to me before in a similar situation..but the guy didnt have texting on his phone
2006-06-11 14:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by tmanix14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if u texted him a few times and have gotten no reply, then stop and give him the chance to chace after u. guys usually like it better that way. but try calling him (just once) if there's no answer, leave him a message. if he calls u back then u know that he atleast noticed but if there's no reply, let that go cos there are plenty more fishes in the sea. good luck
2006-06-11 14:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by lovinmommihood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some cell-phones dont take text messaging!!!So why dont you call him and ask him or the next time you go to church ask him about it either he will say yes or no and if he say yes then good yah!!!And if he sat no try to move on thats the best way to handle the situation.....
2006-06-11 14:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Deneshea D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to take a chance. The way you are with this guy is the same way I was with my boyfriend. We use to work together. I liked him. The only difference is that we use to talk outside of work (but just on a friend level). One I was trying to pull a joke on him, I told him I was dreaming about him and had mad fantasies about him. He was like "yeah right, their is no way i could like him". So i told him how i really felt about him and we've been together every since. Remember there is a chance he never got your messages.
2006-06-11 14:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by meek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably stop contacting him if he hasn't responded back. You don't want to seem desperate or too eager. Ask him about after church and see what he says.
2006-06-11 14:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well text one last time and tell him that if you dont text back ill take the hint and leave you alone
2006-06-11 14:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you're coming from...you don't want to make your situation when you see him at church awkward either....No more texts...If you really like this guy, then call him directly..your female intuition will tell you whether he's interested or not...Trust yourself!!
2006-06-11 14:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by benarte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't have texting features on his phone or he's just really busy at times. You shuld approach him asking why doesn't he reply and if you really like him then ask if you cann see eachother on days other than sunday.
Hope this helps
V
2006-06-11 14:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by ...Is A Real Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that is a big hint. just move on if he wants something with you he will have to be the one to make the next move u have done enough. good luck and while u are waiting for this one look for some one else who appreciates you for you and wants to get to know u with out u having to chase them!
2006-06-11 14:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not know how to text or might even have text block. (your phone would still say message sent) Try calling him instead
2006-06-11 14:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋