I have been w/ my beau for 4 weeks now. On week 3 we had sex for the first time. My cousin who set us up, found out, and has proceeded 2 give me her opinion. She says that I am sad, as in pathetic, and whorish to have sex with a guy so fast. As a young man I would expect him to perhaps mention what we had done to his friends as would I. Sharing of secrets=bonding, you know that whole thing? Evindently however, his friend could not keep it himself, which is how my cousin found out. She says the only reason she knows is b/c when females give it up to guys as easily as I did they talk about it. I understand that to be actively conversating, not a mere mention. Which is what he told me he did w/his friend. He & I have spoken about it. The length of time it took me, I intiated the sex, is not a matter of concern to him. However my cousin and I are not speaking b.c she thinks Im a whore, & if this fails its my fault. I think shes too judgmental & should mind her buisness.
2006-06-17
18:44:59
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Roma
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