My bestfriend is a girl who is very nice.we do all things that a bestfriend can do.i always supported her and always tell her she is a nice girl.everything is wonderful.but when a newbie transfers in,all she does is with that newbie.it's been almost 10 years we 've been best buddies .one day i ask her to go out and do everything that we always does,she said no and that is fine with me.suddenly she called my phone and tell me that why did i acted like a jerk to herand talk everything nasty about her.i asked her what is her problem and why did she said like that.she wouldn't explained to me and tell me that i am a piece of junk.and leave.she even accused me for trying to take her boyfriend away.i told her i never did that.from that time on we are not bestfriends anymore.everytime i went out to the park, i saw her WITH HER BOYFRIEND.happily.plz tell me wat to do?
2006-06-17 21:12:25 · 9 answers · asked by Ami Yumi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nothing i guess, probably normal teenage romors that've been going around the place. I think u should just either give her time to think about wat she said and find out the true story, or u can just go talk to her like basic stuff lol. Say that u didn't do any of those stuff watever her friends told her it's not true about u...etc
Good luck.
2006-06-17 21:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true friend then she will come back and make things right with you once she finds out the truth. If not then you just need to move on and find someone that shares the same values as you. After 10 years of doing this to you should have taught you that she is an on again off agian friend.
2006-06-18 04:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by CrzyCowboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have more time to spend on your school work and reading and you need it. I don't know what it is you want to do in life but you will have a tough time doing most things with how illiterate you are coming accross. I'm not trying to minimize how hurt you must be over your friend and I'm glad you're reaching out for help but this will be a good thing if you use it as a chance to get more education.
2006-06-18 04:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hide behind those feelings. obviously you like her. come on...its common sense...if uve been best friends for 10 years...you would find it someday that you not only like her as a friend but you expect something more...dont worry...youre not the bad guy and its all part of growing up. if she found somebody then b happy for her. But i know how you feel. Time heals a broken friendship...
a little bit of suggestion...talk to her...take a few moments to explain how you feel. communication is all it takes. if she doesnt buy it then you just waisted ten years of friendship on her...but real friends understand each and i hope you work things out...
stay blessed
2006-06-18 04:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be absolutely vicious for NO GOOD REASON!
Read "Odd Girl Out" by Rachel Simmons.
It's about how girls bully each other worse than how boys bully each other.
When i was in junior high i had a friend i was really close with and then out of no where she was accusing me of wanting her boyfriend and she was trying to convince all our other friends not to be friends with me anymore.
I know it's a totally awful thing you are going through but I promise you'll make more friends! Just forget her and go find more loyal people to hang out with.
But, go find that book, you'll be amazed at how many women have gone through your same situation!
Hang in there, Toots!
2006-06-18 04:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing sweety you don't need a friend like that...Even with a new boyfriend she should honor your friendship specially when you always did things together...You are more like sister and big sister is getting to big for her pants...The best thing to do,is move on and find a new friend and start having and enjoying your time again...If your so call friend calls and whats to go and do something(i know what i would do)it's your call,decided what you want to do!!!!
Clowmy
2006-06-18 04:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r going thru bad times dude ! all u can do is wait for the right time 'coz 10 years of friendship are not meant to be broken so easily. let her breathe fresh air for some time and then clear all misconception, illusions she has in her heart for u. i hope that will work out in your case.
:) take care
2006-06-18 04:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by vjdi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is being a jerk. Get a new friend who will treat you with respect and not accuse you of false things.
2006-06-18 04:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life.
2006-06-18 04:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋