4 years ago i was on the outs with a guy i had dated for about a year. we decided to see other people. well there was this other guy named jason that worked with me and the whole office was like in love with him. well a girlfriend of mine told me told me that he wanted to ask me on a date. i figured what the heck. so within like 3 months we had gone out on a few days. he became like a big brother to my son who was like 2 at the time. i had explained to jason that i didnt want to jump in a relationship because i still wasnt over the guy i was with for a year. well it seemed like jason was starting to fall for me because he began telling me that he loved me so i thought that it wld be for the best to just be friends. i had tld him that it wld be alright for him to still see my son but he and i wld just stay friends. he got mad and called me terrible names and didnt speak to me for days. it was a friday and before i went to work jason called me to say sorry and asked if we cld meet
2006-06-17
18:18:01
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that night to tlk as friends. i didnt think there was any harm in that so i agreed. he did tell me before we got off the phone that he couldnt help it but he would always love me. well that night i picked my son up from the sitters and got home way too late. i figured since jason had to open the office so early the next morning that i wasnt gng to call him so i went to bed. the next morning work called me and tld me nt to drive and that jason had been in an accident and was in the hospital and probably wasnt gng to make it.i learned he was upset i didnt call and he wnt to the bar drank about 16 beers tld the bartender a girl broke his heart and left.he went through a guardrail and slid upsidedown and crashed into a tree in a covertible camero with no seatbelt. he was in a coma for 20 days and had a 1% chance to live and his whole family blamed me for it. i wasnt allowed to tell him good bye and when he finally passed i cldnt go to the funeral.i had to wait a month to go to his grave.
2006-06-17
18:22:57 ·
update #1
my son asked about him so much because he didnt understand death and i tld him jason went on a trip to see god on a plane. to this day my son sees a plane and waves and says that he will see him soon. its been yrs but i still have his boots,cookiedough he bought from girl acouts,a truck he bought for my son,i still miss him and i feel like i am a murderer. i miss him and i wonder if he has forgiven me and if i will see him some day. i never went to a grief counselor and i take a lot of medication for mental issue. sorry this is so long but i just wanted someones opinion. thank you.
2006-06-17
18:26:30 ·
update #2