I've been married for 15yrs, we have 2 kids. She basically tricked me and we had the first child, then I gave up on life being any different, we had the 2nd. I LOVE my kids. I've known for yrs that we didn't love each other, but I would not break it off for the kids' sakes. My wife is cold, unloving to me and the kids, and is very selfish. I've always thought it would get better, have supported her endeavours, given her all the material thinngs she wanted, tried to ignore the problem, did all the romantic things I should( trying to convince myself it would get better), encouraged counseling etc, but no avail.
I find myself completely in love with someone I've known for several yrs, we're not physical together, that wouldn't be right, but we have acknowledged our love for each other for several months, it really is the real deal. The only things I care about are the well being and development of my kids and my love for this woman. My wife will fight me for the kids, what can I do?
2006-06-06
12:08:30
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Marriage & Divorce