There is this girl who stares at me and I stare at her. We always have eye contact when we stare. But shes afraid to talk to me and I am also afraid. Her reason is that her friends hate me and mine is Im not good with girls. We have a lot in common and I know that becase I overhear her talk since I sit near her in class. How do we go out with each other and I dont want "forget about her" anything that rejects her or speeliing/languge arts errors as an answer.
2006-06-06 12:10:33 · 11 answers · asked by Revolving Ocelot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the first thing you have to do is stop being afraid! A date will never happen until you get the nerve up to talk to her and ask her out. Even then she may reject you due to peer pressure since her friends don't like you but if she does then she isn't worth pursuing anyway. Good luck!
2006-06-06 12:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start by giving her you e-mail address talk to her that way get to know each other.Talk on the phone maybe it will help you both to over come your shyness.You can give it to her during class so that her friend don't see!Start slow you don't and you wont be great with girls you have so much to learn.Be yourself don't try too hard be kind and make the girl laugh!Just give it a try make the first move.You will only get better at it when you start asking!
2006-06-06 19:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by shookyloo® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her number in private and make an agreement between the both of you to meet in a place where none of her snobby friends will be present. That way you can be yourself without fear of being judged by morons who have an unfair preconceived idea of what kind of guy you are. Also, she will be free to judge what she thinks of you better since no one will be attempting to sway her opinion one way or the other about you. You can be you and she can make her own decision. Also, if she likes you enough when you two are alone and able to be yourselves she might just say, "Screw my friends, I want him and I don't care what they think."
2006-06-06 19:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by McReynolds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look what you need to do is just start talking to her. she is prolly waiting on you to make the first move..ya know well once you start talking and everything ask out for a date and once you realize you 2 are hitting it off then just step to the next level like heer boyfriend. obviously she is not happy with him or that relationship. so maybe you could talk to her about that just see how she feels about the idea of you and her ......
2006-06-06 19:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by drillteam_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to her OUT of school! This way you don't have to look at her Friends. If you can't speak to her to tell her to meet, you could pass her a note. Once your cool with her, don' worry about Friends, it's not there life it's yours.
Good luck.
2006-06-06 19:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by goodboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl probably likes you so don't worry about not being smooth just talk to her. You were not talking before so nothing will change if she ignores you.
Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-06 19:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is waiten on you to pull the first move walk up to her and start talkin to her ask her on a date to the movies and after the movie take her out to dinner then you never know you both might hit it off
2006-06-06 19:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pass notes and ask for number but u have to start the note passing./ start with how are you doing?
2006-06-06 19:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by BlueEyedBeauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have enough corage when you talk her do stare at her friend it her you what and practice talking to her and then asker out who cares what her friends say
2006-06-06 19:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by dark angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm, u can ask her if u know her from somewhere, that's always a good convo starter
2006-06-06 19:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋