I was with a man for 3 years on and off and we were recently engaged due to me being pregnant. Well e lot her and i was not happy with him. So i called it off. But 4 months ago when we were not with eachother i dated another guy and we dated for 3 months then i broke up with him cause i found out i was 4 and a half months pregnant. So i went back to nick cause that is what my parents and evryone told me to do but i was not happy. So the other guy devin wants to be back in my life and i feel ready cause the only reason i left him is because i didnt want to burdden him and he want to help raise the baby. But he wants to be a doctor and i did not want that to get in the way. Is it okay?
2006-06-06 12:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by chantell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I want to be with a man i only dated for 3 months, but i did not stay with him because i found out i was 4months pregnante. I got back togehter with the dad. Well i lost my baby girl it was a stillbirth. I tryed to stay in the realationship with him but was not happy is it okay to go back to the nam i want to be with even after 2 days of just leaving my other man?
2006-06-06 12:25:43 · update #1
I think it's totally fine to date again. If you werent happy with the father of your baby then you aren't. No one can tell you who to be with. You need to follow your heart and do what you think will be best for you and your baby.
2006-06-06 12:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by abenn09 2 · 14⤊ 5⤋
Whoa. Ok, so you've had 2 kids with this guy? And he wants to be a Doctor? So you would be living on student loans- the responsibility of being an intern and studying is huge and difficult and will put a lot of stress and strain on your marriage especially if you don't love each other in the first place. Your kids don't need to be around that either. Do what you feel is in the best interests of yourself and your kids- and for God's sake use birth control...
2006-06-06 12:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you're playing a ping pong game. Maybe you should sit on the sidelines and just watch for a little while. You've been thru a traumatic experience and your emotions are probably all over the place. You don't have to jump in to anything. If this guy you like really cares he will still be around. Take it slow.
Just my opinion.
2006-06-06 12:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by just_a_guy_in_florida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you were not married and nobody died. im sure you are old enough to make your wom decisions and do what makes you happy not everyone else. so if you want to be with this other guy and he has accepted the baby then go for it...
2006-06-06 12:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to never date again.
2006-06-06 12:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to think things through, you sound confused
2006-06-06 12:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your HEART, nothing else and you won't go wrong. Kids or no kids they won't keep you together.
2006-06-06 12:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by distalbicept 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋