Ok, a guy that I like (and he likes me), has proposed something. (no, not marriage).
Long story short: I can't be with him at the moment, we live in seperate parts of the country, and I need to get through some stuff (issues/problems, call them what you like) before I think we can be together...
He wants to "show his commitment to me" and "get my commitment to him" by depositing a chunk of money into my bank account. (he has a lot of money, but thats not important)
He says he knows I wouldn't accept the money unless I was committed to him, so if I don't accept it he will see it as a sign that I have no plans to ever be with him.
Basically if I don't accept the money he said he will have to say "have a nice life".
I don't want to lose him, but I don't think I could accept his money. It seems weird to me (I kinda see where he's coming from)
What would you do?
(I know it may not make sense to you, and I'm sure I'll get some nasty comments.)
2007-09-13
23:48:22
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Trout Pout (Lollie)
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